Relationship deal breakers!

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  1. mactheripper

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    Is the size of a man's penis a deal breaker, for you ladies (and gay men)?

    Is oral/anal sex a deal breaker, for us men?
     
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    No. My ex-husband (my only marriage) was below average in penis size. I've learned that it really isn't penis size that makes the difference, unless we're talking about micro-penis or something like that. I can see how that might be a deal breaker.
    Honestly there was ONE instance in my life in which penis size ended it for me. The guy and i got along great, he was extremely handsome and funny. When things eventually heated up between us one night and it was time for "show and tell" his length was fine but his dick was literally about as big around as my index finger. I brought the show to a screeching halt and couldn't go thru with it. I wasn't rude about it and tried hard to pass it off as I just wasn't ready, But i know he knew and i felt so horrible about it. I really think i could've carried on had he given me some kind of heads up because the shock of it is what made me freeze. But life goes on.....
     
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    That has to suck! From what I've gathered from most women, they'd prefer anywhere between 6 to 8 inches, with the width of a hot link. Not too big not too small.
     
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    Yeah. My bf is 7" and about 2" thick. An excellent size i must say.

    It just occurred to me.... I've never measured a penis in my life yet it seems most men know their exact dimensions. Lol
     
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    Sure it matters! No way would I have a relationship with anyone who has a 3 inch penis.
     
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    Yet you know your bf's
    All women know their bust measurements.
     
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    And at the other end of the scale???????
     
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    I'd have to say that in general--size wouldn't be a deal breaker. If a guy was at either end of the extreme, it might be. (I'm talking micropenis status, or like over the top belongs in a porno status.)

    And I know I'm not a guy, but if a man refused to go down on me or for whatever reason wouldn't let me blow him, I can't see a relationship lasting.
     
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    Men always seem to know their measurements and usually don't hesitate to share the info.
    I HAVE to know my bust measurements in order to purchase bras. I don't think men have to know their dick length in order to buy their undies. Lol!
     
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    Yes
     
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    I never share, freely but will if asked by the 'right' person. :rolleyes:
    Some of us might :D:rolleyes:
     
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    That's what I like honest!
     
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    I'm seriously considering hiring H4H to handle PR for me on this site. She is short, concise and straight to the point. I love it. Lol
     
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    I think it would be a deal breaker for me if she didn't like to have her pussy licked or for some reason she didn't taste good. Like if her diet consisted of brussel sprouts.
     
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    note to self: no more brussell sprouts. Lol
     
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    You don't need a PR, you do a brilliant job for yourself :)
    I'm not short; I'm not very concise; I don't come to a point - so that's me out of the running for a job :(
     
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    Give me a clue, what does that taste like?:rolleyes:
     
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    It didn't matter when I first started having sex, but then I meet Mr. B in college. He is pretty big, 9 inches long, thick enough that my hand can't quite grip the base. At first I was kinda freaked out by it, but after a few days of just hand jobs, blow jobs, titty fucks, we did it and I don't know if a less than average - average man would satisfy me. There is something about feeling "stretched" by his package that turns me on, knowing that I get it whenever I want it. He think similarly about my tits

    -Mrs. B
     
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    Yes, I don't like them too big either. 5-7 inches is what I prefer.
     
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