Rejection

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  1. Southernboy

    Southernboy New Member

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    So my wife was on the computer checking out a forum that she is on when I walked by her, I whipped my penis out and put it on her shoulder and waited to see what she would do. She squirmed out of the way and told me to put it away and that she was busy. About an hour later she was eating a hot pocket and I decided it would be a good idea to walk around the house butt naked, I walked into the room and she yelled at me to go put some clothes on and she didn't want it getting in her food. For one, I was a good 10 feet away from her and two, sticking my cock in her hot hot pocket does not sound very smart to me and I have no idea why anyone would do that.

    Has this ever happened to anyone else? Or am I the only one? While it entertains me when she does this stuff it also makes me feel that she is no longer sexually attracted to me. I'll admit, I'm not the biggest guy out there. I'm only about 7 and a quarter inches but she is 4'11" so I'm about the length of her forearm and as round as her wrist. I'd say that is a good ratio.

    Input is welcome here from ladies and guys. Does this sound like normal pregnancy behaviour?
     
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    Well your last statement put your first two paragraphs into perspective...SHE"S PREGNANT!! At this point at least for the next year - sex will be her call...she must not be too far along and hormones wacked - pretty soon she will want it alot but be gentle then, you will have to make some "adjustments"! Good Luck
     
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    Why do you feel the need to do shit like this?.....:eyes
    Pregnant or not, I'd expect most women would probably have a similar reaction mate...:ugh
     
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    No it sounds like normal female behavior, brush up on your seduction techniques (for lack of a better word) for they are lacking
     
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    How the hell did we come to the pregnant conclusion just by her eating a hot pocket?

    Regardless, if my guy randomly came up to me and threw his cock on my shoulder while I was *busy* on the computer, I'd swoosh it off to as though it were a fly and tell him to buzz off. You don't initiate sex like that, nor do you initiate it in the weirdest of times. IE: when she's eating.
     
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    Only time i figure it would be a good idea to try to initiate sex while she's busy on the computer is if she's watching porn or reading erotica, but i wouldnt' recommend the penis on the shoulder
     
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    Maybe he thinks women shouldn't eat without his permission unless they're pregnant
     
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    last line of his post :)
     
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    I will say that yes, pregnancy can throw things out of usual with hormones, and after the birth. For a few months for some, my ex was that way, and one of her friends. Play it safer for now and go easy with impulses for a while, the mood for sex will likely come back in later pregnancy as seen in many cases, but don't jump from 0 to 60 and in a speed wobble, it can kill the mood.
     
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    Sorry, I guess I left out some details. Before we got pregnant with our son, if I would have done anything like that she would have played with it and put it away for me. During the pregnancy sex was dead but I figured it was due the fact that we were having a boy and that threw her sex drive out of whack, I was fine with that. Three weeks after the guy was born I got deployed for 5.5 months, so I don't know nothing bout postpregnant sex.we are now pregnant with a girl at 29 weeks so it is later pregnancy. I always heard that she would be a horn dog by this point but have yet to see it. I'm getting worried that she only wants to provide the kids.
     
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    Try romancing her with a hug, a caress and a kiss, maybe while she isn't preoccupied. Following her around naked won't do it for most women. That's more like something that a woman could do to turn a man on. The same things that turn us guys on don't necessarily do it for women.

    And for the record, over 7" is a pretty fucking healthy sized shlong. But women's body size isn't related to how much she can handle. That's discussed at length in another thread somewhere around here.
     
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    It might be the pregnancy, I have a friend that while she was pregnant didn't want anything to do with sex, not even blowjobs she found them disgusting at the time. And lets say that your techniques(as kermit38 said) for turning her on or putting her on the mood for sex are not very what a woman might find provocative.
     
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    next time instead of the penis on the shoulder, try a hand, followed by a kiss on the cheek or a whisper in her ear. as for pregnancy, my sister was the only pregnant woman i've ever known personally and she didn't do a complete 180 personality change. she just got irritable a lot easier than normal... her patience was slim - nil...
     
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    I'd say your seductions methods are out, like everyone else, but you did say it worked for her in the past.
    Take her out for a romantic dinner JUST BECAUSE. Romance her like it was the first date all over. Make her feel sexy, compliment, listen, help around the house.
    This RANDOM shoot of good behaviors will have her smacking her forehead thinking how lucky she is, it will get her all excited again. Be playful, pick her up (maybe not that she's carrying!) swing her in circles, tell her sweet nothings....
    THOSE are better techniques for seducing, than whopping out your shlong!

    for me....he just needs to be not talking to anyone....or we have to be alone in a room. And ... *POUNCE!*
    poor guy...*shakes head* lol
     
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    I have to agree with many of the previous posters. Strutting around naked whilst she's eating or whipping out your penis randomly whilst she's busy would piss me off, not arouse me. Some great advice here, use it & you might find she's much more interested.
     
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    To be honest, there is no such thing as 'normal' behaviour in pregnancy. every pregnancy is different and she will experience different things.
    when i was pregnant, i couldnt get enough of sex. my oh would just have to look at me and id be horny as hell. i was even willing to try out newer things then.

    give your missus some time. hormones are screwed up, emotions wreak havoc and her body wont feel the same.
     
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    Have to agree with this poster x 1000. I would add your attempts smack of desperation and lack of confidence which is never sexy.
     
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    Put a penis on my shoulder as a form of seduction and you are likely to loose it.
     
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    Google David Shade. Great stuff in seduction area for committed couples, different from pickup.