This happened a while ago(years), yet it still lingers in my mind. Back in high school, I liked this girl. But was always too shy to talk to her. I'd occasionally pick on her, she hated it. The next year, we had some classes together, and we both picked on eachother a lot, the flirty kind not in any way cruel. Then we started talking a lot more. We talked for every night for 2+ hours and it was great. There wasnt anything we wernt uncomfortable talking about. She was a curious girl, and would often ask me thing about guys, and I'd tell her, and aks something back. She seemed to enjoy my curiosity soo much. But as time went on, we became a bit more than friends. And she started flirting a lot more with me. It got to the point where most people though we actually were a couple. Well I got thinking one night, and decided I'd ask her to go out with me. We'd been talking every night for over a year and she'd gone through 3 boyfriends and hadnt had one for a while. So I asked her, but her answer still confuses me. She said, "No, I'm sorry. I'm not ready for a long term relationship, and you're so perfect for me. You have no idea." I was crushed really. She had told friends she wanted to go out with me 2 days before. But months later, another guy asked her out. And he's all i heard about from her, and she thought she loved him and wanted it to last forever. Eventually she ended up completely forgetting about me. I was no longer the one to turn to when things got rough, but another face in the halls. Ladies, why would that be a reason to reject a guy? I dont quite understand. Too perfect?