[Ask a Guy] Refractory period

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  1. David4020

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    Guys how has your refractory period( time until you can reach orgasm again ) changed with age ? And at what age did it start to slightly change ? Mine hasn't really changed so far.. i'm 39 in 5/6 months time. When I feel like it I still mange to cum three days in row before needing a day off. Then i'm good to go again. Also the last time I was with someone 4 years ago I could cum and sometimes be ready to go again within a brief period of time. Mind you maybe I couldn't now.. I don't know lol

    Everyone also knows when you are with someone the extra incentive and different feelings can help you... be ready to go more regular. Than when you're just wanking alone.

    Hopefully everyone tells the truth and doesn't pretend they are still 22 lol :)
     
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    Yes i'm sure you all knew what refractory period means. :D But clarification does no harm.
     
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    Beyond a certain age ED sets in but despite that it is still possible to have a full sex experience given sufficient incentive. Personally I have never taken viagra or any such medication and do not intend to so do. One must retain a level of humour in such matters . :D
     
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    Yes , true about humour. And everyone should realize age effects us all , no one will be a almost always hard fuck bunny for ever. :D

    Unfortunately. lol :)
     
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    Almost 40, can manage once a day no worries.

    Now and then I go crazy and jerk it 5 or 6 times back to back. Then I need a day or three before I'm good to go.

    I found my mood affects me more than anything anymore.
     
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    Age probably has an effect. But for me, it's all about how tired I am. If its after midnite and I've been up since 6:00 am and worked a 12 or 14 hour day then I'm one and done.. Out cold.. But if I'm well rested and it's middle of the day, I can usually go again after a few mins.. As for masturbating , if I'm alone and have nothing but free time I still might go at myself 3 or 4 times in a day.. But that rarely happens because I never have free time and I'm rarely alone at home...
    Oh, and I'm 51 now.. And it doesn't seem like it's changed for me yet.. But I'm sure it's just around the corner. (Age wise)
     
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    Yes I agree the energy you have on the tap usually means.. you'll have more stamina all round. Which usually leads to more masturbating/sex/orgasms. Good work on the masturbating alone though , but I think most guys alone probably aren't too interested after they've cum once in a day.

    It's definitely easier to give up on yourself.. than it is to give up when you have a lady around.
    I've definitely thought I feel like going again and could of... but thought shall I.. nah.. lol More often than not when alone it's been nah I wont bother. :D
     
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    I'm 31, when i'm really turned on I can keep going again straight away but the sensitivity is a killer though and doesn't take long to cum but mostly with in a few minutes and can go 3 or 4 times, I agree with 12barblues when coming off a 12 hour night shift I can always knock one out but my recovery time gets longer if I can stay awake that long.
     
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    Straight away is good for you and would of been for her obviously. :D

    I could at times do that pretty much instantly , the last time I had sex 4 years back. May still be able too I don't know. lol
     
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    4 years! Honey, how can you support such a long time without sex?
     
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    After a bad break up , the first two years was pretty easy! Tbh I wasn't too bothered then. Of course there's masturbation better than nothing. But never going to match sex. Sooner or later i'll try harder to find someone again I guess. :)
     
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    I'll root for you, sexy.
     
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    Thanks , must try harder. No matter who are no one ever comes to you. That's for sure. :)
     
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    For a man, I suppose. When you're ready, go for it!
     
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    Personally 26 years without sex ! and still married . We can still survive after all that time. I miss it though and would welcome the chance. Que sera sera ! :)
     
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    I'm 56 years old and I can come again in 24 hours. I have as many as 4 times in 48, but that's been a couple of years. I feel like I could again in a few hours but my wife doesn't want sex again that quick. We have had sex four days in a row, but something always interrupts us trying to break our record.
     
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    I'll root for you, too. That you can do it again.
     
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    I'm over the 60 hill and sure age comes into it.
    When I am away from 30 years younger SO I just seem to lose interest and an occasional wank on the edge of the sofa (because I like edging) is fine to keep me sane but when I am 24/7 with her and especially on weekend up to 3 times a day is not uncommon.
    So from this I deduce that age does make a difference or more precicely perhaps, difference in age does :)
     
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    Thank all of you gentlemen that contributed to this most interesting thread.
     
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    Caramel, I always jest so please don't read anything into my post other than it is the close presence of the person we love most that determines our libido which in turn influences the so called "refractory period" in more mature guys ;)