My GF and I are looking for a sexual lubricant. Occassionally we need a little help (she is going through menopause). We have tried K-Y Jelly with the warming effect and we don't really care for it. I have been hearing good and bad things about grape seed oil. Some swear by it, others say it burns the skin and sex organs and not to use it. Has anybody tried it, or do you have anything you like better?