Recomendation For Sexual Lubricant

Discussion in 'General Sex Discussion' started by Amature, May 21, 2012.

  1. Amature

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    My GF and I are looking for a sexual lubricant. Occassionally we need a little help (she is going through menopause). We have tried K-Y Jelly with the warming effect and we don't really care for it. I have been hearing good and bad things about grape seed oil. Some swear by it, others say it burns the skin and sex organs and not to use it. Has anybody tried it, or do you have anything you like better?
     
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    The ky you speak of dosent work for me either
     
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    We've never tried any of the natural products, never heard of using grape seed oil. I don't really like the K-Y stuff either, it seams to get gooey/sticky after a bit. Right now we're using one called "Astroglide" which seems to work ok. If you go to an adult store, you'll find small sample packs that are less expensive, that might allow you to try out some different brands...

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    OK, thanks RideNaked. I've seen Astroglide and I'll give it a try. The grape seed oil is recommeded by several of the orgasm gurus that I subscribe to. They swear by it, but like I said, I've been reading that it can burn or sting the woman and I don't want to cause her any discomfort.
    Almosthere, my problem with the K-Y warming stuff was it didn't feel right for either of us, and when we mixed oral with it it kinda numbed my lips and tasted a little funky. Kinda hard to explain I guess.
     
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    Try 40 weight motor oil.
     
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    For light-weight lube I recommend Astroglide. Good stuff. For something thicker (which the wife preferred) we used plain old K-Y Jelly in the squeeze tube.
     
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    cant really say from experience, but my friends say, that astroglide is good stuff and last a good while. I guess Im lucky, never had to use lube. My wifes pussy is a walking water fall. she has had to change panties multi. times in one day. not always, only when she gets horny. i find myself checking the dirty clothes basket, just to see were I stand. lol... she dont always tell me, thats a missed oppertunity....
     
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    coconut oil. Doesn't seem to stain the sheets
     
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    Being a gay bottom I've tried a lot of different lubes, from the worst (hand lotion, mineral oil) to what I consider the best.
    If you want to go with something natural, olive oil is excellent. It also tastes good too.
    Astroglide is the best water soluble lube, though it tastes nasty.
    If you want to use a silicone based lube I like Gun Oil the best. It's my favorite lube. It's great to use in the water because it won't wash off with plain water, but it will wash off with soap and water, unlike most silicone lubes. The taste isn't too bad.
     
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    I agree with the coconut oil, it also has a pleasant smell over the typical lubes
     
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    my girlfriend doesn't like how thin astroglide is, she says it doesn't feel like it does any good. ky jelly is what we use, it only takes a little bit, and with how little we use it, one tube has lasted us 3 months, and we still have half a tube left!
     
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    Thanks for the suggestions. I'll probably pick up some K-Y jelly and some astroglyde until I can find some olive oil or coconut oil, they both sound interesting. She usually gets very wet, but everynow and then we need a little help. Don't know why, but we're thinking it is possibly the menopause thing.
     
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    Astroglide is what the wife and I use. Tried others but come back to it every time...
     
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    Personally the best lubricate me and the misses have found is a bias opinion but it is Super Silk Lube. Its amazing stuff, i really recommend it. Super Slik Lube 100ml - 4.99 :
     
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    Spittle!
     
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    I use grape seed oil on my salad! I hope that helps. :]