Receiving blow jobs or hand jobs cheating

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  1. wd10018

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    I've received blow jobs and hand jobs from women other than my girlfriend but never vaginal sex. Would this be considered cheating
     
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    yyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyup
     
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    Most definitely.
     
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    There are many interpretations of what cheating is, from just looking to anything that doesn't involve intercourse; If she thinks it is...It will be under your current circumstances.

    xx
     
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    You got off didn't you, yes you are a cheating bastard....and your girlfriend should kick your nuts up to your throat as she walks out the door.


    And you've disgraced by home town.
     
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    I won't answer your question yet. I'll start by asking a different question:

    Would your girlfriend be unhappy if she knew?
     
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    Yes, even though Bill disagrees.
     
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    Would me fingering your girl to orgasm be ok with you? Or what if she just gave me a hummer? Or if i just gave her oral?
    To me any sexual contact is SEX. Be it oral or manual.
     
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    Could be cheating with no sex. A variation of Meee's question: Would you tell your girlfriend about it. Anything that isn't totally open with a partner is cheating. If you skip work and go fishing but don't tell her... its cheating.
     
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    ask your girlfriend and see what she thinks! :rofl unless you're OK with her giving out hand/blowjobs when you're not around?:toast
     
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    did you work as a US President in the 90's?
     
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    @12BB: I'm with you on this. Bill got away with it because he and many others have the archaic ideal that they have not been "having sex" if penile/vaginal intercourse was not involved. If you're not having sex, then why are things called oral sex, anal sex, titty sex, etc, etc.?

    xx
     
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    We have more in STL to be ashamed of then a guy getting blown on the side :lol
     
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    There are the Rams.....
     
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    Definitely NOT cheating. Bill said
     
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    I can see that the panel's still oot on this one.
     
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    I would say... yes. :phat Unless the wife or GF likes watching... :eyes
     
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    If you're not married, who cares.
     
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    I guess there's no crying in baseball and there's no cheating in dating.
     
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    Must be a "sucking ain't fucking and eating ain't cheating" kind of relationship I guess.
     
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