Hi guys, I'm 21 and I'm a virgin. I see there's plenty of posts about that here. But I'm really shy. Well, I seem to be getting over it gradually. But I have a hard time just making friends even though I do actually get on with people fine. Shy may not be the word actually... social retard probably fits better Thing is I'm not at all shy with sexual stuff - if only I had a chance to show it - you can imagine how frustrating that is! At least as far as I know without having done anything with another person. The first time might still put me off for life :lol I don't have anyone to learn from... just wondered if you had any advice from finding someone onwards really. I'm starting to get a bit fidgety now and it would be nice to be pointed in a direction. I don't feel particularly embarrassed or under pressure about it but I'm starting to get worried that it's never going to happen. Thanks for anything.