Not really sure where to start with this. I know that I am confused as hell, and a little pissed off at the same time. To start, my 4th of July meant being on call for the company I work for. I only had one call, and spent most of the rest of the day at home. Throughout the day, I was constantly dropping hints to my fiancee about wanting to create some real fireworks after all the local fireworks shows, if you are catching my drift. We do have a 2 year old daughter, and are in a weird living situation. I may get to that in a little bit. So our daughter starts getting tired, and takes herself to bed. My fiancee had been taking pictures all night of the fireworks shows. Once our daughter is out for the night, my fiancee seems more worried about her pictures than anything I had said to her all day, until I said something about it. Then she comes into the bedroom, basically wakes up our daughter in the process (again, weird living situation), which seems like was just another reason to blow me off. This has become a regular thing, where I drop hints throughout the day, and get blown off. I have been seeing that it is causing problems in the relationship lately, but it seems like she thinks its normal. I have tried talking to her about it, several times, and always seem to get nowhere. I have tried and tried, and nothing changes. It seems like she just wants it to stay this way. About the weird living situation, it may take a bit to explain. We had lived in a town about an hour away from where we are now for about 5 years, I had a decent job, and everything was seeming good for a while. I ended up getting laid off about a year and a half ago, so we basically had nothing to live on except for the little bit of savings we had, and the ridiculous unemployment payments. I tried starting my own business doing computer repairs, but that failed miserably due to over saturation of people who think they are computer techs leaving those of us who are actually good in a bad position, and being in a small town in a bad economy didn't help either. Things progressively got worse, until some friends in a larger metro area offered to let us stay with them until I could get back to work, and we could get a place of our own. I am between paychecks right now, and we are looking at apartments when I have some off time, but for the time being, the 3 of us are crammed into one bedroom. The problem is this had started several months ago, before we even made the move down here. She seemed to get to the point where she makes it sound like it's "just sex". I am really getting to my wits end with this, since it seems like a lot if we actually do anything sexual more often than once every 2 weeks. Anybody have any ideas of what could be going on? I know when I got laid off, and had next to nothing coming in money wise, I became depressed. That seems to have changed since I have gotten to work, but it seems like something else is up, and no matter how hard I try I can't seem to get to the bottom of it.