Hey everyone! I just found this forum and i lvoe it so far! So i have a probly with blue balls. I get blue balls EXTREMLY bad( i have pain in the testicles, and in the stomach). I only seem to get blue balls when the girl im dating is grinding on top of me. No we dont have always have sex after, but even if i masturbate it doesnt get better for a really long time. What can i do?