Reading to much into this email?

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  1. DLM77

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    More then a year ago I was hooking up with this girl. She was kinda seeing someone at the time. I backed off so i didn't cause issues with their relationship. She was 19 and I was 29 at the time. Actually we both decided to move along because of the age difference and we didn't want to hide it, mostly because she didn't want her father to know.

    A few weeks ago the broke up and a friend of ours had a BBQ last night and they all wanted me to go. So she sent me this email ..."hahaha she told me the story..i laughed SO hard.

    So your going to the BBQ tomorrow right? ..well you better or else. you know why?? cause I'm going to be there. hehe. i haven't seen you in such a long time. Call me sometime!! I'm always available..id love to hear from you."

    I've always wanted a relationship with her. We got along great, in many ways we would have made a great couple!

    At the BBQ we didn't get a chance to talk much because of the # of people at the gathering. She's a very beautiful girl and was pulled in 4 directions as once so, having a few min to ourselves was not going to happen. At the end i hugged her and told her I would call her sometime.

    What do you all think?
     
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    I say call her! See were she is at in her life now and who knows maybe something will come of it!!
     
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    If you said you'd call her, call her.
     
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    This!
     
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    See dude? The hot chick in the body stocking is backing me. Proof that I'm right.
     
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    Thats besides the point. You're A1, and thus always right, i thought.

    Seriously dude. Call her.
     
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    yeah, im going to wait a few days and the call her...
     
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    Dude, why wait? Call the girl tonight!

    BD
     
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    This newbie learns quick! :lol
     
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    I am not "besides the point", I AM the point :phat
     
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    :dgrin

    @A1: And hey...Just because I don't post much doesn't mean im a nub :p I've been here for almost a year now ;)
     
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    Your humility overwhelms me FC! :p
     
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    I guess i didnt want to feel desperate? It is very difficult not too. She is almost perfect in everyway!
     
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    I don't think you'd come across as desperate at all. You said you'd call her, so you are!
     
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    Why, thank you! *curtsy*. :lol
     
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    Hey, DL, WE like to be pursued! She told you she wanted you to be at the party, and hinted at starting something up. Translation: She wants to spend some time with you. I hope you have called her by now! Desperate is calling over and over and over when someone has told you to stop. Hint: Girls do jump when the phone rings and get all excited if they think it is a man they want, and expect to call! GET TO IT! :D
     
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    Sounds like you are in love with a fantasy girl here.

    Before, you said, "She was 19 and I was 29 at the time. Actually we both decided to move along because of the age difference and we didn't want to hide it, mostly because she didn't want her father to know."

    What has changed? There is still the age gap, right?
     
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    She's a police officer now and is in the process of moving into an apartment with friends. I also wouldn't say im in love either. Just very attracted to her. :)
     
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    Did ya call her? :shrug