Rape Fantasy

Discussion in 'Sexual Fetishes and Fantasies' started by AGFUNK, Dec 31, 2010.

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  1. AGFUNK

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    Does anyone have a rape fantasy? Anyone ever acted it out? My husband and I have done this a couple of times with a safe word picked out before hand of course. I like it when he just comes up behind me and grabs me dragging me towards the bedroom and holds me down. He holds me down and has his way with me. It's awesome. SO how about anyone else?
     
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    Well this thread that I started is about the fantasy role playing rape, not the real thing, which I hope you are not talking about. During the fantasy role playing rape you should Always pick out a safe word before you start with the roleplaying. That way if she wants you to stop or something hurts all she has to do is say the safe word.
     
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    Correct....that's where the "safe word" comes into play.....:eyes
    The dominated partner should be able to say whatever the situation dictates but the moment the safe word is uttered, it should be a case of....ALL STOP/ TIME OUT.....or as a minimum, back things down a little, depending on what those participating have agreed on beforehand....
    I've let this thread continue because even though we cannot discuss actual rape on this forum, there are many who choose to do this roleplay and that's a whole lot different.
     
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    I definitely have this fantasy and act it out with my man quite often. If I get some more time, I'll elaborate a bit more.
     
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    I used to do it often :)
     
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    My ex was into this ... i struggled with it though, I was only 16 at the time. I can understand why some find the fantasy a urn on, and if my SO wanted this I'd definitely ensure the safe word was in play
     
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    I'm into it, when I'm in the right mood. Generally I'm the dominant one.
     
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    dominant like you control the pace or you control the whole show ??
     
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    Generally, I control the whole show. We haven't played out this fantasy (rape) for years, lasttime it went too far (ignored the safeword) and he actually really hurt me, so I'm reluctant to do it again.
     
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    that's the same reason I don't do it anymore as well
     
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    its always been something i would try. but its one of those things that if never get the chance to do it i would not care :)
     
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    i'm still waiting to try this one out. always been curious about it. i cant come up with a safe word though, i always come up with the dumbest words like 'lighthouse'
     
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    Lighthouse isn't a bad safe word. Mine is butterflies.
     
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    anything that you will remember and is totally not sex related is good

    I used flamingo for a while =)
     
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    Like role playing rape with bondage! I really think the best way of playing out rape is with a swing partner! It really gives you a real feeling, someone you always fuck just doesn't give you the feeling of rape.
     
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    I have always had this fantasy as well but never found a partner to fulfill it that I wanted to do it. A couple of my female partners wanted to try it but I couldn't get into a woman raping a man (no offense)...and have only ever dreamed of a man doing it. *shrug*
     
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    Its something that I love; and for us, it's kind of sweet and intimate... in a pull my hair, beat my ass, fuck my throat kind of way. I think it is an incredibly intimate thing to be close enough with and trust someone enough to tell them, "My body is yours to do whatever you want with. Please be rough," and NEVER worry about them taking it too far or losing respect or love for one another over it. It is SUCH a HUGE step of trust that brings you both incredibly closer together.

    And it took a hell of a lot of doing to get there. Steve is the sweetest and most protective person I've ever met. And to get him to hurt me a little in order to give me more pleasure was really uncomfortable for him. But I've finally gotten him to the point that he'll do EXACTLY EVERYTHING I want and more. But I've never worried for a single second that he's going to take it too far.

    Now that's trust. And that's something else that's sexy about it. Being that close to someone.

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    I had a friend with this fantasy. Until a really sick bastard did raped her. Now she dares not get out the door at night
     
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    That sucks. My sympathies are with your friend.
     
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    Speaking of safewords- totally off topic, but it reminded of this and made me laugh. ( sorry to hijack) watch this. its hilarious. Lets think of a word in case we panic......Pineapple! Pineapple! :lol
    YouTube - Crocodile Hunter Meets His Match
     
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