racial fetish fantasies

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  1. lilceaser

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    i wanna talk about my most secret fantasies that i have. just to warn you, im a fuckin nutcase!

    alot of times i fantasize about white girls who think my dick is too small for them and humiliate me about it, then they fuck a black guy right in front of me and laugh as they watch my little white dick get hard.

    other times i fantasize about black women. i want to be dominated by a sexy black woman with a huge black booty. i want her to slap me in the face, put a leash around my balls, and make me lick her pussy and ass, and if im not doing a good job, she'll pull the leash. i love the image of her sitting on my face smothering me while my little white dick points straight up, and she says stuff like "lick me whiteboy!" i want her to tease me about my size too.

    alot of times when im jacking off, its hard for me to cum unless im thinking about this stuff.
     
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    Racial issues are something which is almost unique to the US I'm afraid. Most of the rest of the world sees beauty and sexiness in all people: a hot white girl with lovely blonde hair, a gentle, kind and very dark African like my wife, a slim and pretty Asian woman who looks about 10 years younger than her age. It's not the skin colour or the race; it's the person.

    It really is about time that Americans got over race and just took people for who they are. Who knows, they may gain something with a new attitude!
     
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    well, this is all just fantasy, in reality of course i'd look be more into the individual person, and i never said i didnt see beauty in people. this is just what i find psychologically thrilling in my own mind, and would maybe like to act it out one day in a role playing type of situation
     
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    Even as a fanstasy this sort of thing is quite sick. Fantasise your partner with another man or fantasise your partner as an escort in a role-play or fantasise being tied up by your partner but never, ever fanstasise race or skin colour. It's just plain wrong and very demeaning to those who are darker-skinned than Anglos.

    We're all the same inside and the real differences are cultural, but you need to have a relationship with someone from a different culture to appreciate and enjoy those differences.

    Typically darker cultures are more overtly sexual than Anglo culture, but that's because they don't have the long history of religious sexual suppression. This is where the stereotype comes from: early explorers found that women in these darker places didn't mind having good sex with someone who merely caught their eye, rather than denying, denying, denying. To some extent this is still the case today in many of these places. But this is a cultural difference, not a race difference, and there is a big difference between the two.
     
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    i dont know what to tell ya...my penis is not politically correct.
     
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    [​IMG] I must say, I don't think mine is either and that is a great excuse.
     
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    i mean honestly, when im jacking off in the privacy of my own home, i dont give a fuck who it's disrespectful to or who it might offend, this is the only place ive ever even told anyone about it.
     
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    Make you right. Just because you fantasize about something doesn't make you that person as it is purely a fantasy. Some people fantasize about rape situations (with willing participants) but it doesn't make them a rapist, the complete opposite in fact.

    So you carry on thinking what you want. Despite the rubbish we are fed none of us are entitled to free speech anymore so our thoughts are our only true escape until they find a way of controlling those too.

    Now I'm off to let my penis have politically incorrect thoughts about snow white and the seven dwarfs, with me being grumpy.
     
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    if you really think that the US is the only country that deals with racial issues then you are very mistaken.. I'm guessing you've formed this opinion through watching your television news huh.. /sigh
     
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    What you mean darker places.. that sounds like a racist comment lol
     
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    i love black girls. so sexy
     
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    If fantasising about different races is sick, I'd hate to know what others think about my disgusting mind. :eek Best I never, ever, ever, ever tell a soul.
     
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    haha, now im intrigued. what are they?
     
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    Never, ever, ever telling!!! :p
     
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    ahh come on, pm it to me ;)[​IMG]
     
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    Then I'd have to kill you and live the rest of my life on the run. I don't think so. :eyes
     
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    I wrote 'almost' not 'only'. I have done a lot of travel in my life and have lived in a few different countries in various parts of the world too. In more recent times I see a lot of postings from Americans who obsess about other Americans with a different skin colour (why?). That's not the television news.

    My African wife IS very different sexually not because she's dark but because she was born and raised within a culture that is more sexual than ours. If I wanted to describe her sexual personna in one word it would be 'insatiable'. But that's because she's African, not American with African roots from 200 years ago! She's totally different to a coloured American because of her culture, not because she has a similar but darker skin colour.

    However, the stereotype is there from a long time ago. Explorers went from Europe to Africa and other places and discovered lots of sexually insatiable women, and it's true that African men are sexually insatiable too, so you can imagine how the stereotype of skin colour and sex came about. But it's actually from cultural norms and not 'race' at all.

    If Dragonfire wants a very sexual man who's probably better-hung than the average white guy, then a genuine African man might give her a chance of living that fantasy. I have a lot of friends in the African community in Australia and a common problem for white women is they are ínitially attracted to the 'always in the mood' state of mind but then get disgruntled that they can't turn it off! Indeed I have known quite a few marital breakdowns over this issue, and what started as fun became a chore. For white men with an African wife the same may apply, but not from what I've seen personally.

    White women do seem to suffer an ebb in sex drive when in a long-term relationship, and this doesn't seem to happen in African relationships.
     
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    People are people. Sex is sex.
     
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    Hey lilceaser

    Interracial is my ultimate fetish and fantasy! I just love it! I have similar fantasies! It is one that I act upon in real life.

    Haha, do you know how hot that is? I once got my Soul Mate to chain me up, drag me around town, and shout "White slavery!" Man, we had a lot of fun with our public displays of affection, and it's so sad how people can accept a joke about anything else except racism.

    I also get off on being teased for being white. Love being called "white girl". Being dominated by a man with brown skin. I have had many interracial relationships and loves. Those relationships very much thrived with the aspect of focusing on race in a good, light hearted way, and being able to be okay with that and not treat it like it's some messed up taboo. It's also, a breath of fresh air.

    I mean, someone in this thread said, people would be better off accepting people as people, BUT PART OF THAT, is also accepting that people are all different races ironically.

    There is nothing sick or morally wrong about it. Unless you have obvious hatred issues. Being attracted to skin colour is a part of life, as it is a part of physical attraction to humans, just the same as a man would be attracted to a woman with nice breasts. Or like how some people are attracted to sci fi characters, or blue people like from Avatar. We are all attracted to different things, and that makes the world go around.

    What is morally wrong is one race only being attracted to their race and not being open enough to accept physical attraction to other races.

    This is nothing close to being a hate crime. It is interracial love! It is the complete opposite of racism. If someone is truly okay with cultural differences, they would be able to accept that different races can be attracted to each other. One of the most bonding things in interracial relationships, is the ability to make light out of the past. Being able to make jokes about all the hardships and racism going on in the world.

    Using that sexually is intensely amazing, fantasies (which are just that, fantasies for fun!) about slavery, hatred, racism, same as domination, are most commonly involved in scenarios whereas a bad situation turns into something good. Just the same as someone who fantasizes about being dominated, they get a thrill out of being treated badly temporarily, then comes along a fix, but the big thrill comes into play when the one dominating them secretly enjoys it, likes it, loves it. The Mistress secretly loves them and has his best interest in mind. Most cases that same interest happens with interracial sex scenarios. The thrill of racism is hot, but really, the two people are seriously into each other.

    This fetish is wrong when it is solely about abuse and rape. Otherwise, it is simply natural. Just because you are born into a colour of skin, doesn't necessarily make you the same as everyone else. You may not even agree with what your race has done in the past. Then of course, you have all types of people who resonate more with another culture than their own.

    Then of course, you have a bunch of mixed race people everywhere, halfbreeds like myself, all around the world. And unlike other people I have a lot of pride in my ancestry, and I am okay with being a halfbreed, and I'm not afraid to say this shit. Because I don't have a problem or any judgement to any race. Just because I am physically attracted to brown people, doesn't mean I hate white people, and it certainly doesn't mean I hate brown people.
    I can turn as white as snow in the winter, but in the summer, I am brown, and so most times interracial relationships are not that big of a deal anyway. Because I am not just white, in fact I have more dark skinned genes in me than german anyway.
    But get this: I am NOT attracted to white people, even though it's in my blood. Physically, I never have been. It is something I just do not control. The rare time I am attracted to a white person, they have different facial features and are obviously mixed race. And I do not find white skin very attractive. I do not even find my white skin to be very attractive, not in the winter, and for that reason I do get off on being teased by it even more so. I don't have a problem with it, but I certainly don't mind using it to my advantage.

    If you all think being attracted to skin colour is wrong, then get ready for this:

    I DO find the contrast of pale on darker skins to be highly attractive. I find all sorts of interracial couples very pleasing to the eye.
    I find all types of races very pleasing to the eye, but when it comes to paler skins, not as much. One of the most beautiful things in the world is the sight of different colour skins on each other during sex. A black dick in a white pussy, or vice versa, the contrast is so beautiful. With same race sex, it all blends into each other.

    And I am not racist. I am often mistaken as different races ALL THE TIME, though I am just native with some german background, more exactly cree, coast salish, huichol aztecian roots, and a lot more. And most of my friends, family, ect are native american, one of the most inferior races, and my native culture is very important to me, as well as the spiritual part of my culture. I feel more at home in native culture, yet I also exist in white society. My adoptive family are all pure white, and i love them dearly, and I have no judgements about their religion and lifestyle choices.
    I know exactly what the past was like for my native people, because that was passed down orally and the ancient ways still remain intact, while white history books are censured and false. But no one in the human race wants to be singled out and treated like minorities and have people hush at the mention of the word "brown" or "white" or "black" or "green lol" in fact, it's a breath of fresh air when someone can openly talk about racism and joke about it.

    So being mixed race and not openly advertising it (sometimes my partners didn't even know i was not fully white because i enjoyed keeping that secret), i had interracial relationships, and that whole sense of not seeing it all as taboo is greatly refreshing for all full blooded men i have been with. A lot of them are so used to people feeling like they have to tip toe around the subject of race and culture completely, and THAT is so wrong and a form of racism in my eyes. But I guess that's just my experience. People need to lighten up.
    ALOT of people get off on interracial sex, just the same as there are a lot of interracial couples in love. It's not an uncommon fetish. And it's not uncommon for the fantasies of dominance, as well as slavery, war, ect...

    I know if i probably told everyone my fantasies of it, I would be stoned to death probably! Yikes! :eek