I was going to leave without really explaining why I was upset, but so many people have PM'd or emailed me that I thought I'd give SF a chance to appease me. I'll stay if I'm satisfied with the results of this thread. 1) Where are these rules posted that people tell me about about what's allowed and what isn't? I've been here 3 and a half years and I've never seen them, I just go by the precedences that I've seen. 2) Can I make a post about marijuana? It's illegal in every state, but most mature people don't think it should be, and I've mentioned it many times without anyone raising an eyebrow. CowboyLover has had multiple avatars depicting marijuana use and no one cared. 3) Can I make a post about salvia? It's illegal in 20 states, but the USA does not have an official ban on it. 4) Can I make a post about DXM? It's an recreational hallucinogen and legal in every state. 5) Can I make a post in support of gay marriage? It's illegal in more states than salvia, but again, the USA does not have an official ban on it. I'll stay if #3 and #5 have the same answer (if they don't you have to give a satisfactory explanation of why), #4 is yes, and Mitt posts an apology for being disrespectful to someone who's been here 10x longer than her and admits that she was overzealous. I'll apologize for being a bitch if she does that, but I won't say I was wrong because I wasn't. Those who know me well know that I'm very non-confrontational and don't carry-on unless I'm 100% sure that I'm in the right. I like hugs, puppies, and candies, not arguments. So here's my side: I don't see why a mature salvia thread is against the rules, but my stoned ramblings in the Bar and Grill are fine. Pot is illegal everywhere, salvia is legal in more than half the states. I see a heavy bias from Mitt against salvia with no reason why. I also don't see why being illegal in some (by not my) state matters; gay marriage is illegal in far more states and if SF has a stance against that, then I sure as hell don't want to be here anyway (I'm bisexual).