This Will be my First post. I searched the forums and was unable to find any of the questions I really had. So if they have been talked about then I am sorry for posting them. Are you into the real outgoing guys or the quiet/shy curious guy? And Why? How many ladies have met or have a man that will give u sensual turn ons through kisses on the neck, touch of his hands on your body, and compliments? Do you make a guy work for the sex and how hard do you make him work? Are you into the guy teasing and making you work for the sex? I ask all this because I am that quiet/curious guy that loves the shy/quiet lady only because in my mind they seem to be the ones that break out and have an absolutely awesome sex mind. Not saying outgoing girls don't but from my experiences they have not been as wild as a quiet/curious girl has. From my experiences things such as kissing of the back of the neck, running your hands down her curves and lightly teasing with your fingernails going back and forth, running my hands down the inside of her thighs and also having the feeling of my lips hovering over her and feeling me breath just by doing this i have found the sexual experience even better. Most guys I talk to don't do any of this and will have nothing to do with it. Am I the only one or do women even want that anymore? The one thing I know some women like to do is tease and they can be very good at it. Me personally I like to tease back I don't always give her sex when she wants it and I make her work for it a little bit. I have never had it backfire on me but are the women on this forum into that?