Questions about letting my wife have sex with another guy.

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  1. Watchmefuck0-0

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    My wife and I have talked about it quite a lot and we role play it during sex. She is completely on broad with it, but I’m just trying to get some insight as how I should go about it. I’m also on broad with it as well. Just to clear that up.
     
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    There's a huge difference between role play and bringing someome else in. Use various sights to find someone. For the love of God, vet them before you let them in your bed. I don't necessarily suggest using Craigslist unless you're willing to risk it. Fetlife is a fetish based website that allows you to join groups based on interest and location, you may be able to find someone on there. Another option is use tinder but place in her profile she's married and looking for someone to let her husband watch. Shouldn't take long to find someone.

    Meet the guy for coffee or lunch, consider doing it at a hotel so he doesn't know where you live unless you want it to be a regular thing.

    Just remember to be safe and understand that i wrote this at 5am on 2 hours of sleep so if it's not coherent, ask for translation. :p
     
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    Set rules beforehand for all parties and use a 'safe' word to stop any activity that you're not comfortable with. Ours was 'NO' and everyone knew to stop no questions asked!
    In the thirty years that we played outside of the marriage, this has worked for us. Just be sure that everyone is clear on the rules beforehand!!
     
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    I thought you were a woman.
     
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    The first time we used a guy she knew from her college days. After that we used swinging websites and specified that i wanted to watch. It didnt take long to find guys she was into.

    We'd meet for drinks before to make sure chemistry was good. If it was... then we all went up to the room and they fucked like crazy while i watched.
     
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    I didn't let her, but she really wants to
     
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    If she really wants to, you have a great start. See if she is ok with you being there, at least for part of the time while she fucks. That will help you deal with certain aspects of your jealousy, at least you know, at it may really excite you to see her with him. Does she have a man in mind?

    I have been the outside man for couples (a "bull") since I was a teenager, and I have several regular couples now. I know about this stuff. If you have any questions about this kind of sex life, send me a message.
     
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    The question is whether you want to be there to watch or not. It's going to be a lot harder to find someone who will consent to you being there.

    If you do not want/need to be there then just let her find someone she finds attractive and let nature take its course.
     
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    after we split up, I accidentally walked in on her with a guy. She knows that and holds it over me because i loved it