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  1. endless

    endless New Member

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    my boyfriend once asked me to suck his balls... i just started licking them and he told me to suck on it. he didnt ask me to do it again... but im sure he'll love it if i do it again

    but should i do it even though he doesnt ask me to?

    thanks :)
     
  2. SexyScorp

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    Yes...

    He would love it I am sure....

    I have always been a woman (sexually) who doesnt wait to be asked....

    The element of surprise for me is a big part of sexual allure....

    Go on do it.....but make sure you dont bite em off.....:)

    Enjoy!!!
     
  3. heelfetish

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    To offer a differing perspective, perhaps he found he didn't enjoy it when you sucked on them, which is why he hasn't asked for it again. A man's balls can be very sensitive, and very susceptible to pain. Shear pleasure can turn to excruciating pain in no time. Sometimes we think we want something until we actually get it and realize it wasn't what we thought it'd be.

    My advice? Either ask him if he'd like you to suck on his balls, or just try it and gauge his reaction and go from there.
     
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    By all means, Suck them. To ask a Woman to suck your balls
    is not something a normal man can do every time you have sex.
    You have been asked once so take that as a clue that He likes that
    I know I definitely do like it but would be hesitant in asking a Woman to
    do it all the time.

    Hiker:sf
     
  5. Bella

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    Yes, I would do it again - especially if he enjoyed it the first time! :cheer
    He can offer opposition if he doesn't like it or praise if he does! :brow
    ~Bella
     
  6. Dr.Drumr05

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    Thats the thing. Having to ask for things really takes away from the pleasure of it. Think about it, wouldnt you rather be surprized than have to ask for something? I understand that everyone has to ask everynow and then. But just doing it is the best answer, that is if both partners make it a mutual thing.
     
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    I need to amend my first post
    to say

    Not every man can ask you to suck his balls every time you make love.

    Hiker
     
  8. valadia77

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    try it once

    I would try it once. always think about what your partner may be willing to do for you...if you show a little bit of willingness to try something for them.