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Discussion in 'Sexual Foreplay and Techniques' started by bLood420, Dec 3, 2006.

  1. bLood420

    bLood420 New Member

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    do you ladys likee it wen ur close to orgasm and the guy sticks a finger in ur butt



    i did so to my last ex girlfriend and she immedietly orgasmed



    said she didnt know why and wen i told her i did that she said she didnt even notice


    but it was "the best"
     
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    shy?!?
     
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    Argh!! So Many Typos!!!
     
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    i know i know but is that really the reason why no one is responding?
     
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    Okay, you want my point of view. I, myself, wouldn't like if a guy did that to me : putting a finger in my ass. That's how I would feel about it. I have never done it and don't think I'll do it either.
     
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    It must be so tough to type coherently. :lol
     
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    it is cuz i can spell orgasm
     
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    Could be. I sometimes feel that if a person can't take the effort to type out the words and use proper punctuation, why should I take the effort to answer? Other times it makes me think they're 10 years old and shouldn't be on the board anyway. But that's just me.
     
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    I'm not always in the mood for anal play, so, no, I wouldn't like it if a guy spontaneously stuck his finger in my ass as I was coming. I think most women would feel the same way. Guys have a prostate gland, so sticking your finger in their ass during sex intensifies things, but it doesn't work that way for us.
     
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    That's how I feel most of the times. Also, I haven't had much anal play, so I don't know what to tell you.
     
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    sorry all for the punctuation wont happen again

    thanks for answers<33
     
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    Two things that usually work with a new partner. One is verbal (would you like me to stick my finger in your arse?) well before orgasm is approaching. The second one is more subtle and perhaps better for experienced guys, but you can momentarily brush her with your finger part-way through intercourse and see how she responds. She may like it, in which case you could go a little further, or she may stiffen or frown in which case there is no harm done.

    Sex is a partnership, and when we feel the need to expand the boundaries in that partnership, me must do it in a way that takes into account the feelings of our partners.

    I don't go with the 'no prostate' comment above because many forms of anal play that women have performed on me have not gone anywhere near my prostate, but still felt nice. And I have also performed anal play (and anal sex) on women who showed positive response to my moves, and they seemed to enjoy it too.
     
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    I wasn't talking about anal play in general. And, I agree, it does feel nice to have one's nose scratched.