Hi! I'm new to these forums here and I have one important question to begin with. I started using the pill 9 days ago and I was wondering if it is relatively safe to have sex without using a condom and have the guy cum inside me? I've heard in several places that it only takes the pill 7 days to become effective but I've read a couple of things on here that make me wonder if that's true. I'd be happy to hear anyone's ideas on this. Thanks!