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  1. WebDesigner

    WebDesigner New Member

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    Hello everyone, well I'm trying to find something out..., if I'm gay, Bi, or Straight.. Back when I was 13 this other guy Steve and I would fool around..... like touch each other and stuff.., he moved. Once I got into high school I started to go after girls and stuff right, now I'm 22 and when I watch a porn or something with woman in it I dont seem to enjoy it.., but when I watch other men its different, I like it.... Does this mean I am gay or Bi?, please respond back with some information... thank you.
     
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    You are bisexual... I would say... can't really expand on that.. Do you still like women at all?
     
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    Umm yea of course I still like woman.. I have a girlfriend. The only time I seem to 'get off' with woman is when I'm with her.
     
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    Yeah, you are bisexual. ;)
     
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    But I've never had sex with another man, that other person and I just fooled around by like touching each other... we were young, stupid, and going through puberty. Its not like we gave head or anal sex or anything...
     
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    Well do you have any attraction to guys? What you described you do.. well you could remain with the opposite gender your whole life but still be bisexual.
     
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    Well I would'nt say attracted to guys... like not looks or anything, I just get off when I'm watching a man have sex, so I'm guessing I AM a bisexual? ;\
     
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    Yeah I would say so... but that is just my judgement.. maybe somebody else can tell you. ;)
     
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    Well like I said... I like to watch men having sex.. like with other men so I dont know if I'm bi sexual..
     
  10. WebDesigner

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    Ok well now I know I'm a bi sexual. Heres what happened. It's 2:50am EST and I just got back home from one of my good friends apartment Jason, we were just hanging out like some normal guys on a friday night on the couch watching some TV, and he kept looking at me so I knew he was trying to come onto me, so I decided what the hell why dont I just make a move... next thing I know I'm on top of him making out with him lol, after that we went to his bedroom and started to do what "gay" guys would do... anal sex.. yea it hurts alright. So now I know I am a bi sexual I guess, or maybe it was just a experience :-\, thats not all we did though :).
     
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    Wow, what an experience. I have to say that to find your sexuality you have to go further than a sexual act. You must ask yourself, and explore your inner self deeper. It will be a long journey indeed.
     
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    That is quite an experience... but I will also say it will take time to realize who you are. Not just a sexual experience will tell that but you have to understand. Like what Chanserv said.

    :D

    I knew I was gay before I had any sexual experiences. ;) But it certainly took a long time for me to accept it.
     
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    This is the first thread Ive read in this forum for ages.

    I like :D
     
  14. boyblog

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    I advise you to go to www.outminds.com if your gay les or Bi or just STR8 !

    it's a Good site.

    Being bi- is not just F*** men and women.
    Anyone can do that and be gay or straight.

    Being Bi is mostly Having General feeling for both sex'es .

    like wanting to Cuddle with a guy and girl , know what im sayin dog ?
     
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    do we ever know 100% who we are ?.
    if we did we would never be curious about anything . right??
     
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    Hear, hear! :toast to never knowing. ;)
     
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    I have had no curiousity for women... so I just figured I am gay... ;)

    Glad to be back people.. ;)
     
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    You have serious bad grammer problems! :mad
     
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    Why are you worrying so much about your label? just enjoy yourself and be yourself, just show the world who you are as a person without enphasizing your sexuallity. basically, it's all good!
     
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    The way I figure it is that it doesn't really matter what your sexual orientation is. I genreally consider myself to be a straight female, but I totaly get off on watching porn with girls in it. Sometimes I wonder if I am bisexual or not, but then again I don't think it matters that much, eitehr way, if I like girls, then I like girls, it makes no difference. I think girls are hot, but I am still straight. I've never really thought about what my orientation is, and just because you have one, or two or ten or even 50 "bi/gay sexual experiences", that by NO means makes you bi/gay. I hit on other women, I tell them they are beautiful, hell I even shower naked with them, but that doesn't make me a lesbian or even bi-sexual. I have a boyfriend and I love him, I only like other women, mostly because I think the female vody is more appetizing than the male body. But no big deal really, either way, to me it makes no difference.

    (and no, I am not jsut 'lying' to myself to prove that I am straight)