No i'm not asking to cyber lol I was in the personals section of the forum and some of the posts brought this to mind. I personally don't like cybering or approve it anymore. I've tried it and it just seems like a weird waste of time. My question is to those who have done it or currently do it. Why do you like it? Why is it appealing to you? Do you consider it cheating if you have a SO[significant other] in real life?