Hi, This is my first post. Naturally I don't want to clutter the forum so if this has been addressed/talked about before then please direct me to the relevant thread. That said I did search High Testosterone and High Libido and struck out with both. Probably my error :ugh So... the issues:: I seem to be an extremely horny devil. I'm not bragging in anyway shape or form. It has become a fairly serious obstacle for my wife and I. We have been together 10 years now (married for 6). When we first met love sex and play were naturally high on the agenda. Now we have two children busy lives and I seem to be like a rampant Stag in an almost permanent state of arousal. I don’t mean to say that I walk around with a hardon for 16 hours each day, but when I’m near my wife it takes very little for me to want to jump her. I find her highly attractive and desirable. If we caress, cuddle of show any intimacy towards each other I’m horny. My wife’s libido is nowhere near the levels of mine and I am frankly getting on her tits. I appreciated I should and can show certain amounts of control/restraint but I get, for want of a better way to phrase it, desperate for contact. Laying next to her each night is like torture or an endurance test. Can I leave her alone? When the opportunity arises I masturbate to relieve my ‘tension’ however sometimes this only serves to highlight the lack of contact. I do wonder if it’s the confirmation of my wife wanting to make contact with me that I desire more than ejaculation. I admit I think about sex a lot. I fantasize about my wife constantly during the day and simply seeing her when I get home turns me on. I‘ve looked across the net and most things I find talk about ways that women can invigorate lustless males. Not what can be done if you can’t get enough. To the question…. Am I particularly odd in this? Does anyone else feel or have a similar situation? Is there anyway of reducing my Libido in a sensible way.. exercise or Diet? I know this is a fairly rambling post and I'm sorry for that. I am very used to forums, just not forums on this subject. I will be very greatful for all feedback.