I'll try to keep this as simple as possible. I've met a new girl, been talkin a lot, very open with each other, and we're not even dating yet though it's bound to happen. Just coming out of a 5 year old relationship and me being only 20 years old I told her I didn't want to rush into anything and she's been incredibly respectable about that. Anyway one day we were talking about our previous partners. I completely believe her, but I figured I'd ask here to see what you folks thought. Do you guys think you should get tested anyway, or under certain circumstances do you think it's acceptable to not deem it necessary to get tested? My story: I lost my virginity to a virgin. She's the only contact I've had. The girl I've met fooled around (fingers, oral, no intercourse) with a dude who was a virgin. She was also a virgin then too. Later, she got serious with a new guy. He was not a virgin. But before they did anything, she made him get tested and the results were clean. So they went ahead and had their fun until their relationship ended. Logic is telling me not to worry a single bit. So is my gut feeling. But I've never been faced with this. Up until now I've never once thought about this because I was always with a woman who lost her virginity to me.