I spend a great deal of time working up to actually having sex...so the act of penetrating is like the ultimate pinnacle of the experience... I'm starting to feel like I follow the same routine too much. Step one: lots of foreplay, step two: going down on her until she cums a few times, step three: slow sex, step four: hard/fast sex. And I hate routines.....so here's my question: Do you think it would be a good thing to stop having sex in the middle of it all and go down on her, then back to sex for awhile, then go down on her etc? My fear is going from maximum pleasure into something more mild.....what do you think?