Question for the ladies

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  1. oholt54

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    I have been married for about 20 years & the years have really flown by. My question to you is I am not circumcised & my wife really likes the penis to be circumcised . What should I do ?
     
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    You should talk to men who have had adult circumcision. Talk to a urologist and decide if you want to go thru with it.
     
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    That's a difficult one. My initial thought was no. But if I had money I would get cosmetic surgery. And this is what you are talking about getting.
    I would research it really well and be very sure you want to get it done first.
     
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    adult circumcism? wouldn't be for me, I had it done as a baby and thank God don't remember it. Anything involving sharp objects around johnson traumatizes me and him. :eek:
     
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    I would say dont do it. Shes been with you and your uncut cock for 20 years! Does it please her? Im sure it does. Then she should love it as is. Would you ever ask her to surgically alter something on her body because youd like the way it looks more? If yes, then by all means, go for it. If no, then I think thats a pretty unfair request on her part.

    I personally love an uncut cock...they always seem more sensitive. :)
     
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    Sure do it and book her in for a boob lift at the same time ;)
     
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    It took her 20yrs to tell you this?..She knew from the first time she had sex with you that you were uncut..I think its a little selfish on her part and crazy for you to think about doing it..I love my hubby but in no way would I have any type of cosmetic surgery just to please what he doesn't like.She made her bed so now she can sleep in it!
     
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    Exactly
     
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    I don't think she will sleep on it. That is the problem.
    That sucks, I don't know what to say.
     
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    I prefer foreskin. It's there for a reason. It slides. It feels good. WIthout it, sex doesn't feel as good.

    She should accept you the way you are. I would get a divorce if my partner wanted me to cut off a body part because it wasn't good enough for them.

    I'm sure some people have good reasons but cutting your skin off sounds really fucking painful, I wouldn't do it and I wouldn't ask anyone I cared about to do it either but I'd never ask anyone I cared about to change anything about their appearance anyway.
     
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    uhhh dealbreaker for me. I nicked myself with a scissor while trimming a little while back and I'm still traumatized by it. Now if it made it a few inchs bigger..........
     
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    oh sorry!!, just reread "question for the ladies", a thousand apologies