question for the ladies....mostly.

Discussion in 'General Sex Discussion' started by reddevil07, May 14, 2007.

  1. reddevil07

    reddevil07 New Member

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    hello everyone.
    i'm new here. and......idk.....;;
    please welcome me.
    ok.. well....
    i just have a very important question.....
    what do yall ladies look forward to when having sex???
    any particular stuff u like????????
    maybe like... lots of touching??feeling??oral?? favorite position??
    i know it might be a little different from each one..
    but.. i'm just trying to make my woman enjoy sex as much as i enjoy it.
    so i thought i ask here.
    i would prefer answers from ladies. BUT any guys who wants to help me out .that's cool too
    anything that sounds like she will enjoy, i'll try it.
    THANK YOU
     
  2. Bluesy

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    Kudos to you for wanting to maximize enjoyment for your partner! As a general rule, women prefer a softer, gentler touch, and we like to take things slow, with plenty of foreplay as a prelude to the main event. Oral sex, absolutely :tup My fav position is missionary because of the intimacy inherent in the act.
     
  3. pirouette

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    I look forward to the intimacy of sex. Being close and sexually charged is as erotic as any part of a sex act. I like to feel cared for/about. As for the sex itself, I prefer it if we have sex a few times in varied positions. I don't like it if he holds off his orgasm. I prefer it if he cums a lot. So if we need a little break that's fine. :)
     
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    Being loved on. THe sex could not even take place as long as I get some love. Of course, I do love sex but only because I know that my partner loves and appreciates me.
     
  5. pirouette

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    well said. :)
    I couldn't agree more.
     
  6. sweet melissa

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    Welcome red'
    For me, as like other women, it's intimacy. Long slow kisses, touching all over that lasts forever, having him tell me how good I make him feel and how sexy I am, followed by slow deep penetration are all important to me. I can, and do, have sex without it but I'm often left somewhat wanting afterward. If I'm looking for orgasm only, and often I am, I can do that myself.
    More partners should do as you are and try finding out how to please their mate. Good on you.
     
  7. reddevil07

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    MUCH THANKS to bluesy, sweet melissa, dreama, pirouette for sharing.
    it seems like the answer is ... intimacy of sex.
    making her feel loved, special, how sexy she is.
    and me appreciating her.
    but..... Sweet Melissa "if i'm looking for orgasm only, and often i am, i can do that myself"
    that brings up another question..
    orgasm......................orgasm....
    .......orgasm.......
    how do woman have orgasm.....
    is it just the penetration??
    i have no idea really.......
    i would like to know specifically..with details on how..
    any more help out here ? please ?