[Ask a Girl] Question for the ladies here

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  1. WizardTongue

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    Ok so we went to a social gathering last night across the street at a friend's house..... There was this hot MILF there and she was definitely on the prowl. I mean I even heard her say "I don't care if it's her seconds, id share her too" and the she smiled and waved at me and my wife! Later in herand my wife were talk I ng sexual topics and my wife told her we are looking for a female to give me head on a regular basis. After me getting brought into the conversation this chick says that she is talking to a guy that is engaged but likes being the side girl. Then she looks ne dead in the eyes and says, "I'm not a home wrecker, I'm not here to tell the wife, I mean fiance anything" and again smiles really big. When we got back home my wife tells me I can't be alone with that chick.

    So , two questions.
    1). It sounds like my wife is interested in her. Am I reading this right or too far into it?

    2). Do I need to worry about this chick possibly presuing me?

    I hope question one is a yes. :p
     
  2. AGFUNK

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    Your wife said you can't be alone with the woman. I don't see where you would think she is interested.
     
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  3. WizardTongue

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    Well when I asked if she meant be around she said no just cant be alone with her. I asked if it was b/c she wanted to share? She gave a half smile and the looked away.
     
  4. WizardTongue

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    Btw way we are swingers and my wife is bi
     
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    If you value your marriage/wife, why chance it? Stay clear of the chick.
     
  6. WizardTongue

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    Very much do! Not looking to chance loosing my wife by any means. Just trying to get a sense of if it's safe to invite her in with us. Make sense?
     
  7. glock27

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    Sounds easy enough, ask your wife. Her opinion is the only one that matters.
     
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    Maybe she just thought what you said was stupidly funny that's why she smiled.
     
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  9. Alwayslearningsex

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    You can't be alone with her, so this is the way it needs to be.
    To be fair, any comments on HER being alone with the other woman?
    SO .... it should be the same, or if she goes alone, you should be allowed too.
    Being the devil's advocate and levelling the playing field on both sides. Just an opinion.
    So far, no red light on the part of both of you being with her.
     
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    Ask her. Don't invite someone into your bed that you haven't already discussed having with your wife.
     
  11. WizardTongue

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    No I just told my wife if she was I wanted video. Lol and pics ofcourse. By no means will I cross lines that I lnow I shouldn't. When we swing our major rule is cum together leave together no matter what.
     
  12. WizardTongue

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    Definitely. I think my wife would be game for some fun too.
     
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    Good moves :)