Question for the guys about male morning-after behavior

Discussion in 'Sex and Relationships' started by scorpio_nymph, Aug 9, 2007.

  1. scorpio_nymph

    scorpio_nymph New Member

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    after a guy's finished getting it on with a girl and he's getting ready to leave her place, you know- getting dressed, etc, and he tells the girl to call him as soon as she wakes up (i'm guessing he's assuming she's about to go back to sleep), does he really mean for her to call him, or is that just perfunctory post-sex courtesy?
     
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    depends on the situation, what stage in the relationship, etc. but in general, a guy wouldn't tell a girl to call unless he actually wants to hear from her. not that if she doesn't call he's gonna be all that broken up. he may just end up calling her. if a guy truly doesn't want to hear from you again after sex, he probably wouldn't tell you to call. he might say, "i'll call you when i get a chance", hoping eventually she will just forget about it completely.
     
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    I would say YES....he wants you to call him. I've never said it unless I meant it.
     
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    I've never led girls on after casual sex, so if he says call him, that's probably what he wants you to do.
     
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    Sure call.
     
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    Call him once...but not more than once if you don't reach him. Leave a msg if you like.