Question for the endurance-thrusting guys...

Discussion in 'General Sex Discussion' started by BobbyG, Nov 20, 2010.

  1. BobbyG

    BobbyG New Member

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    I feel intense pleasure as soon as I enter my wife, and each subsequent thrust is similarly pleasurable.
    This pleasure from the get-go often brings me to the boil within a minute.
    It is just too intense.
    (I hasten to add that I always make sure I engage in copious amounts of foreplay, and allow my wife to ride me to her hearts content, so my wife has climaxed well before I turn her over for "my turn" of thrusting ;) )

    I am really curious how men who thrust continuously for 5, 10, 15, or more minutes feel.
    Is the pleasure felt from the first thrust too? Or only during the last minute when the juices can be felt rising to the top?
    Do you have to kind of mentally block out the feelings you are experiencing to last longer?
    Do you get frustrated that you can't come quicker?

    Thanks.
     
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    Hey, Im a virgin so cant comment on how screwing actually feels but when i have a wank i only tend to get that intense feeling just before I spurt everywhere. I dont know how often you do it but maybe if you wanked a bit more it would increase your stamina. Hope this helps :)
     
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    I wouldn't call myself an endurance thruster. It isn't a sport. But I've noticed that when I start slow, it gets easier to control myself as I go faster, harder, and longer. Take the time you need, and I really mean all the time you need. That should be easier for you and your partner.
     
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    One word: kegels. Do kegel exercises regularly, over time they will make a big difference in terms of control. At least it did for me.
     
  5. BobbyG

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    The thing with me is that I am very sensual and if I start slow it is actually harder to control the juices....does that make sense?
    I love the slow thrusting as it turns me on in different ways.

    I actually last a bit longer if I thrust harder and faster, because it feels less romantic/sensual and more 'mechanical', and therefore less of a turn on.

    So it seems I am sort of opposite to how you are. I will give what you suggested a go though. Thanks.



    I can control my ejaculations. The main issue for me is that I have to limit my continual thrusting to say a minute in length....then pause to let the climax drop off...then thrust again for another minute to build it up again...and so on.
    So I have control in that I know when I'm going to come and hence I slow down to keep the semen in...before starting up again.
    What I want to do is to lengthen this minute of continual thrusting.
    Do 'kegels' help in this regard?

    Thanks.
     
  6. HardRocker

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    In my personal experience, which sounds exactly like yours, the only thing that made me last longer, without having to back off and regain control, is time and repetition.

    Porn stars are just desensitized emotionally so they just aren't excited, and many take Viagra or even prostaglandin injections so they can fuck forever.

    I'm thinking you are pretty much like many other real-world men.
     
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    Try masturbating before sex with your wife, and ejaculate. Either right before or a few hours before. Or have her make you cum with her mouth or hand before intercourse. My second orgasm takes a lot longer to get to and still feels really good.

    Let me know what ya think. Hope this helps.
     
  8. gphine

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    I can thrust, practically indefinitely - which was very frustrating when I was a virgin because I couldn't figure out how to get to ejaculation. For me, it was the contraction of other muscles - the squeezing of the abs, ass, and tensing of the back muscles that put me on the road to final orgasm. Maybe if you make a conscious effort to relax these other muscle groups (if they are contracting) you'll delay your release.