i often hear about women seeking sexual encounters with other women even though they are not attracted to women. however, i typically don't hear about women seeking sexual encounters with men who are average or below average on the looks scale. are women sexually drawn only to aesthetic beauty as opposed to "male-ness"? i'm just wondering because i am a straight guy and i am not sexually drawn to other men nomatter how attractive they are. but i am often drawn to women who are average or a little below average on the looks scale.