Question for men about jerking off

Discussion in 'Sexual Foreplay and Techniques' started by zapper, May 3, 2007.

  1. zapper

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    While jerking off, when you start to cum, do you pump your hand over your whole cock, shaft and head, or just work the shaft when you cum.

    So I have noticed when I jerk off I pump my hand over the head and the shaft of my cock, but when I start to cum I only "work the shaft" and not the head of my cock. I have also noticed that when my wife jerks me off, she runs her hand over both the shaft and head while I cum. Now this is sometimes almost a painful feeling to have her pumping my whole cock while the sperm is spurting. Since this somewhat minor revelation I have noticed that a lot of porno men also don't stroke the head when they cum. Now is this because it is more comfortable to cum while just working the shaft? seems to be for me. or is it because you can see the cum fly better?
     
  2. heelfetish

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    For me, the head becomes super-sensitive as I'm about to cum, and for a while after. Stroking the head at that time is almost too much to bear, and takes away some of the pleasure for me. So yeah, I stick to the shaft for those final moments.

    Luckily for me, I very rarely get hand jobs from my wife, as I much prefer her going down on me. And she likes it a lot better too. So the head-stroking isn't so much of an issue. :eek:
     
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    As I am about to cum I actually STOP pumping my cock and just sort of move it like an old Atari joystick. For whatever reason this gives me the BEST orgasms!
     
  4. heelfetish

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    Hmmm, I can't say I've ever tried that. :)
     
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    Just grab it and slowly rotate. Amazing. I gave myself an orgasm this morning that left me panting and actually made my head hurt because it was so intense!
     
  6. heelfetish

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    I think I'll try that next time. Hell, I'm up for just about anything once, a lot more if I like it. :)
     
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    Whenever I cum, I'm usually just stroking my shaft because I have a very sensitive head. And whenever my gf jerks me off, she generally strokes my shaft, but occasionally throws in a head covering stroke to tease me, especially when she has me tied to the bed.
     
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    Ooohh I want one....

    want
    want
    want
    want

    my own cock to play with


    :)
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  9. heelfetish

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    I'll trade you for a pair of breasts. ;) Just for a week or so though, I'd miss my cock. :lol
     
  10. Brad

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    For me Zapper it is usually hand on shaft alone if I'm after a quick orgasm and with no lubrication.

    The head of my cock is way too sensitive for dry skin against skin contact.

    However with lube, its a different matter.

    With Lube the head of my cock gets a full massage. It is still almost unbearable to the point of making orgasm difficult to reach.

    But one there, I shoot the biggest load of my life and the orgasm is massively more powerful.
     
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    You and me both...I always tell my boyfriend that I wish I could have one to play with for one day just to see what it is like.

    But, to answer the original question, my guy only pumps his shaft when he masturbates.
     
  12. WellEndowed

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    without lube, shaft only.... with lube (which is rare) head also

    although without lube, i have some good jerking techniques i use where i can involve my head without irritation
     
  13. JB1

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    I usually grip the shaft and kinda work it up to the base of the head when jerking without lube. With lube or in the shower, I work the whole thing till I'm ready to cum, then it is shaft only. When my wife gives me a hand job, I usually have to restrain her once I cum.
     
  14. Cintaman

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    Cut or uncut

    Hi

    Surely part of the issue is whether the penis is circumcised or not. If it is, the head is a lot more sensitive, so unless you're using lube, it can be uncomfortable
     
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    I pump faster and harder along the entire length when im about to cum..making sure my hand brushes against the head of my cock....sometimes it feels amazing using one hand to rotate the base of my cock as the other hand above pumps hard and fast.
     
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    basically just the shaft all the time every time rarely ever touch the head
     
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    I find stroking the shaft makes the cum squirt further!
     
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    I only rub my shaft when I am cumming -- usually I just jerk the shaft the entire time anyways though.
     
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    The same holds for myself. I think this leads to "muted" orgasms, however... not really sure how to work around that problem.
     
  20. Tommyhot

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    Shaft only here, my head is really sensitive! But if I was able to suck myself I'd suck the head more, I LOVE big mushroom cock heads!