Question about Reality

Discussion in 'Sex and Relationships' started by BigDPhilly, May 3, 2007.

  1. BigDPhilly

    BigDPhilly New Member

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    Are there REALLY women out there who are just looking for casual sex? I mean, I know women who have had casual sex but they have always said they were really seeking companionship and affection...sex was just the fastest way to get those things. I know lots of guys enjoy hooking up just for the raw physical pleasure of it all but are there really women with the same hunger?
     
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    You bet your sweet bippy.
     
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    lol, i like your reply joe. well, i am only 18 so not too much experience, however it is my understanding that lots of it has to do with age. young girls, ie inexperienced ones, will want a long lasting relationship foremost. they have yet to really learn love and crave sex, to enjoy it like guys do right off the bat for some reason. i guess they need to learn the rewards that can be garnered from a casual sexual relationship. if i am full of it, please correct. (keep in mind that there are ALWAYS exceptions to every rule.)
     
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    One of my friends has slept with 200 men

    She has had LOTS of casual sex...not because
    she loves men...but, so she tells me she wanted
    to hurt them!!!!!

    I would be wary of any woman who throws it about
    a LOT...there is often some underlying reason which
    can be traced back to abuse...

    Not always of course...but that can often be the case!
     
  5. Kronnie

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    The only times i have come across females that wish a casual fling, where the women that left after giving me money for that..

    When i was younger i had some casual flings at school though during school, fun times those days. I was and still am very interested in females ( i guess that is why i never did very well at school, i was to busy with the gals )
    Mainly the times i have had sex as a post teen ( made love ) is when i have been in relationships.
     
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    Well, I'm sure some women do seek casual sex, but I could never have casual sex with anyone. I have to be very acquainted and attached to my lover to have sex with them.
     
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    I used to do it fairly often in college. Only 2 one night stands, but several "friends with benefits."

    What I learned, however, is that casual sex can be just as complicated as the more romantic variety. And frankly it's seldom very good. I eventually lost my appetite for it.

    That's just my experience, though:)
     
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    Variaty is as they say the spice of life...
    I have no g/f in real life to make love to...so i would be ok with casual , but would prefer a realtionship with plenty of foreplay and sex.
     
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    :drool: WOW! She is very Samantha from Sex and the City. Love it.