Question about Oral

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  1. FreeWithHisHand

    FreeWithHisHand New Member

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    This is mostly for the ladies out there, but guys are most welcome to voice their opinions/knowledge as well.

    My question, on face value is quite simple. Why do some/most women find receiving oral after sex repulsive?

    I asked this to more than a few, and most just go "ewwwwwww," but can give no solid reason other that "that's gross."

    I was wondering just what the big turn off was.
     
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    from what girls tell me they are too senstive rite after a orgasm, to keep going
     
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    I didn't think of that. It could well be one reason.

    The impression that I got, however, was that they thought the whole idea was gross or disgusting.
     
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    I don't have a problem with it, but I could see how a man might have a problem wanting to give oral after sex....he may not want to taste his own cum. I do think some women may think it "gross" to do that because they're a little embarrassed to ask for it in fear of their partner being completely grossed out by it. I know that I might feel that way...it depends on just how good you know your partner.
    My 2cents for ya....
     
  5. FreeWithHisHand

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    Thanks Shellen77

    Once again, and angle that I had not thought of.

    I suppose I am looking at this from my point of view, which is, I like going down on my partner, and would do it before, during and after sex. I guess that is why I find it interesting that there seems to be many out there that would not think of ever doing it. (Or having it done to them.)
     
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    I don't have a problem with it. To me its a turn on. Some women do feel uneasy because of the cleanliness factor.
     
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    I don't have any problem at all... (but then I am lesbian) so what is the difference anyway?
     
  8. FreeWithHisHand

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    To me I don't understand what the difference is either. I would have thought that oral is oral and if you enjoy it, then it wouldn't matter when, during sex, it was performed as long as each partner was happy. Maybe I just got lucky with my partner.

    @BlueEyes

    I don't understand about the "cleanliness" you mentioned. I wouldn't have thought it was any worse (or unclean) as pre/during sex Oral stimulation. Or do you mean that they just don't think Oral is clean at all?
     
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    I have absolutely no idea why someone would find oral repulsive. I personally love it and complain that I don't get it enough. :D It turns my bf on to go down on me just as it turns me on to give him a bj.

    We usually use it as foreplay but there have been times that we've both done it as a change in pace while having sex. I guess for us, we're both so set on pleasing each other we don't think about it as being gross or anything like that.
     
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    ahhhhh hhhhhhhh.....my what a wonderful woman we have just encountered. Ladysierra.
    I love to hear from poeple that just love to please each other. That just makes my day.
     
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    Well, for me if I orgasm I'm WAY too sensitive for my guy to go down on me. I like the idea and have no problem with either my guy going down on me, or me going down on him before, durring or after sex.
     
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    I do understand the being to sensitive to go down there, but for me that just depends on how much direct stimulation has been received already. But for me i have no probs with it at all, whatever make my partner happy, makes me happy.
     
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    On another tangent, why do some women find it hard to belive that some men had much rather give than receive in this department? I mean, I had much rather eat pussy than get a blowjob.
     
  14. FreeWithHisHand

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    I can't say that I would like to miss out on a blowjob, but I also don't feel that I should not be the only one to get pleasured by Oral. It is always nice when two people can both stimulate each other Orally.
     
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    I just find it sexier to be doing her.
     
  16. LuvTaGiveBJs

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    All the comments given are valid. I never asked my husband to do it for the reasons given - kinda a lot to ask - but a few times when I hadn't cum, he went down right on it and went to town - I was surprised the first time, but turned on too because he cared and it felt super.
     
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