I'm new to the forum and just registered a few moments ago. I'm not sure about the age groups within the forum but I thought there may be some older men that can answer questions I may have. My boyfriend is just shy of 58 years old and I am 30 years old. After three years of dating, I'm still unbelievably attracted to him. The gentle stroke of his hand on mine or feeling of his breath on my neck excites me to no end, just like it did in the very beginning. We have sex very often, two to three times a week normally and every night if we are on a vacation. As for my questions, my boyfriend constantly doubts his attractiveness. I'm assuming it is because of our age difference but I find it very troubling, especially since I find him to be incredibly attractive. He is sensitive about his lack of hair, his body and more. He doesn't express feelings of distrust when it comes to me, just feelings that I don't find him attractive. He will sometimes even ask, "Why me? You could have a ton of men!" Is there anything I can do to help him with this? Also, even though I'm happy with our sex life, my boyfriend usually likes to stick to "normal" things when it comes to sex. He has never tried anything anal and generally stays away from that area. He does enjoy oral sex for both of us and also goes with just about any position, even though he was extremely surprised when I suggested we have sex while on my hands and knees the first time. Actually, he was so surprised, he still brings up that moment to this day. I've dropped hints from time to time about doing something "kinky" in the bedroom but he seems to be very traditional. Could this be because of his age?