question about lubricating

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    dracomallfoy New Member

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    Hello everyone.I am planing to have sex with my girlfriensd.And my friend told me that i need to use a lube.Do I have to lubricate her vagina or my pennis or both I intent to wear condom.
     
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    How old are you?
     
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    Ok then..

    I can only assume that you're a virgin?


    To answer your question, no, you don't always have to use lube. A girl's vagina get's plenty wet enough if she's turned on and ready for sex.

    If she's dry, lube your penis and her vagina.
     
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    yes I am
     
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    Don't lube your penis before putting on a condom. It can come off in her vagina. Be sure and get her wet and ready with foreplay before making the plunge.
     
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    Maybe he can make his own lube .. wink wink . Sorry lol


    If the lucky lady is turned on enough she should become moist enough! But there is a small percentage of women that suffer from Vaginal dryness......
     
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    Good point Hard Rocker..

    Also sometimes lube can end up being too slippery and take away some of the friction if she begins to get really wet after you've put it on her vagina.
     
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    is this her first too or just yours? I just ask cause lube might be more important if its her first...
    Good luck!
     
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    Mitt, I agree 100% with your first statement, but the second one seriously contradicts your first and I don't think it's correct.

    If a woman is dry when a man attempts to penetrate her it means SHE IS NOT READY. If she is not ready, he should not be wetting her vagina with an artificial lube, he should be getting her to the point of arousal so her body makes it's own lube.

     
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    Not always. Some women can be ready for sex but not be wet enough. In those cases, you can use lube.
     
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    I'm assuming that the OP's lover is his around his age. Vaginal dryness of a woman in that age group is fairly rare and is more a condition of older women. Correct?

    Now that I think about it, I don't recall hearing any of the younger women that post here say they use lube for anything but anal sex. Maybe it's just because the woman of SF are just juicier than the general population?
     
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    A woman can also be dry due to allergies, like my girlfriend. If she has the allergies due to the weather, I can make her cum 3 times, and she'd still be as dry as sand.
     
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    My girl's "flow" is different at different times. Sometimes she's juicy enough as soon as we hit the bedroom, but most times, she needs a little lube on her OUTER labia to avoid chaffing.

    I know you girls were referring more to the inner sanctum, but dry is dry, whether it be near the inner sanctum, or actually inside.