This is my first post here so please bare with me. I am a 26 year old straight male. I have had what most would describe to be average sexual experience. I have been blessed with above average size, and stamina by what my partners have said. This is all well, and good for my partners, but I have an extremely difficult time ejaculating during intercourse. I have to concentrate deeply, and most of the time I need to have several sexual encounters before I can cum during that day. This really doesn't bother me a great deal. I enjoy cumming, but I really enjoy the pleasure I can give my partner. Several partners I've had voiced that they would appreciate it if I could cum easier. They enjoy the satisfaction of knowing that they have pleasured me. I have no problem cumming during masturbation. The times I cum easiest are when I'm engaged in anal sex with my partner. I have to confess that I truly enjoy the act of anal sex as well as the feeling. I also feel that it is easier for me to cum while my partner and I are involved in auto-exfixiation. She enjoys the act deeply, and I get aroused by the domination. I am looking for both recommendations as well as the female perspective of how to deal with the request of my partner. Thanks.