Question about doggystyle

Discussion in 'Sexual Foreplay and Techniques' started by nepenthean, Dec 11, 2005.

  1. nepenthean

    nepenthean New Member

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    Ok. This is my inaugurating post here at this forum-- and I am going to jump right in irrespective of my concern over how to ask:

    I am pretty inexperienced in sexual matters. My dick is only about 4.5-5" long (I have more girth than length); it seems this is going to be problematic for getting her from behind. Is it? I have never tried it. Are there other techniuqes that could facilitate this style?

    Obsequiously,
     
  2. Thorn

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    You shouldn't have a problem going doggy with women. With her on all 4s and you coming in from behind you should have no problem at all. Her vagina should be totally accessible no matter what your size is. ;)
     
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    i agree with rose once more u shud have no trouble watso ever xx
     
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    Im in agreement with Thorn...doggystyle makes a female very accomadating for insertion...actually one of my favorite positions....since my wife has a great tush....You could also try having her straddle you...you laying on your back with her on top and in control of penetration. :brow
     
  5. nepenthean

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    Ok, great! Thanks for the responses! Very promising.

    Hey, eandvk, I have tried me supine (on back) and her straddling me, but I popped out several times. Perhaps I should just be more conscious of the pace?
     
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    Well if it pops out..pop it right back in then...lol...happens to all of us at times cuz of the fun we are having!
     
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    even in porn they pop out... so I guess you shouldn't be worried when they pop out in your case. :D
     
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    From a women that has had a lot of different men[I am a call girl]yes your length matters.If you arent long enought your dick is always coming out while thrusting.With me if one of my men isnt at least 6" [and I prefer a bigger dick]I will not fuck him from the rear.
     
  9. Rose

    Rose Resident Sexy Grandma
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    From a professional point of view, that's totally appropriate. You are making money, and you have the priviledge and every right to make a business decision.
    Most of us, however, are posting from a relationship point-of-view, so working through certain 'problems' is important to us. nepenthean doesn't have a 6"+ dick, but wants to pleasure his partner. Hopefully we can give him find some insights to help.
    Welcome to the forum, and it will be very exciting to get your input on the threads. I look forward to reading your posts. :tup
     
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    You'll be fine!
     
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    Try leaning back slightly whilst you're doing it, so that she lowers herself onto you more.
     
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    Make sure you kind of guide her into the right position if she is also fairly inexperienced. I'm somewhere between 6.5 and 7 in myself and I used to have problems with my ex. We figured out though after a few times of trying that she needed to arch her back and stick her ass out more for everything to go smoothly. It might also have something to do with a 9 in. height difference between us, but on that I don't really know.
     
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    Go with doggystyle. You won't be disappointed.
     
  14. NaughtyKnickers

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    My SO is of relatively the same size as you nepenthean, and doggy is by far my favorite position in terms of feeling filled up by his cock. Go for it! Experiment with the positioning of her legs, how far open, or how close together they are, and also have her lean down low, or hold herself up, arching or not arching her back makes a difference in the sensation you both might feel.

    Her on top is great, but like your experience, I've had trouble with him coming out due to shorter stature. The best remedy I've found is, I will ride him, legs spread wide, while I'm up on my feet, (like squatting).
    That way I'm all about him, wrapped around him while I move up and down, tugging up and down, right down to his pubis, caressing every inch he has. In my estimation, that's a win for both parties. ;) You'll be able to appreciate a becoming view of her and if you so choose, you may stimulate her clit and bring her to orgasm that way.

    Give 'em both a try maybe. Sex is one beautiful thing in life that is .. theoretically... 'free'. ;)
     
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    A very old thread revisited, but there must be other guys who may have this problem, and it is good to discuss penis size in a practical sense rather than the abstract of big or small.

    My experience is that some women have bigger bottoms (bigger arses as we call it) which prevents deep penetration during doggy style sex (arse cheeks in the way of getting close). The woman herself may not be all that big, just has a different distribution. Other women have smaller arses and therefore doggy-style sex is deeper.

    I think for guys sized average or less, the proof is in what works and what doesn't. And maybe for some couples, there are some positions that aren't meant to be.

    Interesting comment from NK that she has problems when she is on top of her SO. I've always found this to a naturally deep position, which is one of the reasons why I like it so much.
     
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    Women with a bigger back end can get penetration just as deep by modifying their position as well. Try ass up, head down by leaning down on your elbows. Also try spreading those knees farther apart.
     
  17. NaughtyKnickers

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    Oops, I should have specified :eek:, his cock coming out isn't a problem when straddling and riding or simply thrusting/grinding, but if I'm up on my feet in a 'squatting' position and going straight up and down that way, it can be tricky to keep things together. :)
     
  18. HardRocker

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    That was going to be my answer too, so I'll just agree. With her on her elbows, she can really get that ass up in the air, and you'll have much better access.

    Like Frank Zappa says, "She was buns up kneeling, I was wheelin' and dealin'..."
     
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    I have always heard that doggy style provides the most penetration. So it should help with a length challenged penis. I have always enjoyed it. If you have problems with it slipping out then just try to control your strokes. Pull her hips towards you then start rocking your hips around.
     
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    The position I would use if I were you is lay her on Her back
    You lay on your side and hold one of her legs up and enter her, In this position
    you should be able to get it all in Her. You should be at a 90degree angle to
    Her. Do not thrust Just keep your pelvic region against hers and grind.
    That will massage Her clit good, But don't forget you have another hand
    use it on Her ass or tits.

    And Good Luck

    Hiker