[Ask a Guy] Pursuing an ex

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  1. billytk1977

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    Ok guys, lets say some gal broke it off with you for whatever reason, and while she did move out it was not one of those horrid breakups. You could still talk to her and be nice just nothing past that. And all ofthis happened 2-6 months before you were to be wed.

    Anyway, she goes on and meets someone else and does get married, would you still try to win her back after that or do you just let it be and hope she is happy?

    Ladies, how would you feel if an exwas trying to get you back after you married Someone else?
     
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    If she's married, she's moved on and so would I.
     
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    Thats what i would think as well, but i seen this happen and the looser nearly tore her marriage apart. I dident know if it was just me or if i was looking at it wrong.
     
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    Leave her alone and let her be happy. If you love someone you want them happy even if it's not with you.
     
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    Let bygone be bygone.
    Nothing gained in rekindling a lost cause no matter if it was a mistake.
     
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    Let her go. It wasn't meant to be. If it was meant to be, it may come about some day.
     
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    An ex is an ex for a reason. I have learned this to many times over
     
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    I say fuck her husband.

    Wait...

    No, I don't. I say GET OVER IT.
     
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    Pursuing an LL (Lost Love) is opening Pandoras box, especially if there's a marriage involved. Been there.
     
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