Okay, here's another question. As I've said in another thread, I've been in a 23 year marriage with a woman who is very closed sexually. Now I'm in a relationship with a woman who is very expressive and open sexually - but I don't necessarily know where the boundaries are. I'm still very inhibited though deep down I really want to take risks. Last weekend we were in the theater watching Iron Man 3 (which I would highly recommend by the way) and I had my hand on her thigh, wanting so badly to slide it down into the nether regions, but alas I could not work up the courage to do it. Do you like to be secretly fingered in the dark of a movie theatre or is that too awkward and too public to risk anything like that?