OK my g/f and I have recently started to have intercourse. Although we do have a few questions. 1) Until she is on birth control (very soon) is a condom with spermicde on it along with the "pulling out" method and being very careful safe enough? 2) We used some VCF Foam Spermicide and she seems to be irritated after. The bottle says some women react to it that way. I think she has because we can tell it is little irritated. When will the irritation go away? and will we be ok if we stop using the extra spermicide until she gets on the pill next week? 3) How long does it take for the pill to start working? 4) If she is on the pill and she uses it the same time every day. How safe are we? 5) How long does it take for most women to stop hurting during sex? Thanks for all the great help here all!