I'd like to hear from men and women about pleasuring the prostate. My wife and I have found a butt plug for me is anatomically INcorrect. We use a prostate massager which is shaped a special way, and the results are mind-blowing. Now that it's established that a prostate massager is needed, let me dispel the myth about "massage". The purpose is NOT to rub the prostate. It might even be dangerous. And the goal is NOT to thrust it in and out of the butt. That's all wrong. Slide the prostate massager into place, let it stay there. When you get an erection, it presses (all by itself) on the prostate and seems to increase the hydrostatic pressure on the whole plumbing system and it feels heavenly. Then when you have an orgasm, it adds pressure to the ejaculation, it forces more semen out than normal, the muscle contractions press the massager against the prostate even harder, and the wife feels my extra pleasure. I repeat, do NOT rub yourself with it, and don't even mess with butt plugs or any other item that is round. The only thing better than a prostate massager is a partner's finger *if* that partner has practiced a bit. When my wife is in the mood for an especially hard cock, she puts the prostate massage in my butt and says she can most definitely feel extra firmness. Let me hear your prostate stimulation experience.