Prostate play

Discussion in 'General Sex Discussion' started by cba, Jan 8, 2011.

  1. cba

    cba Member

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    Tonight ive been reading up on the how to massage it.
    So decided why not lets have a go.
    I tried it for about 10minutes without any real sort of effect, wondering is there any sort of technique anyone knows or reccomends to get the great feeling ive read about?
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    If you figure it out, tell me

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    Only feels good wen your about to cum imo
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    no technique that i know of because i dont do it........my woman does it to me :D
    feels awesome while getting head.
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    I have a serious hangup about anything going INTO my anus. I've attempted time and again to work it a bit, but there's always been discomfort I couldn't get past. But the idea intrigues me, so I'm always interested in finding ways of warming up this way.
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    I'll let ya know
    I don't know,my husband won't let me near his,LMAO!!!
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    It's easier to have someone else do it for you rather then do it yourself. Unless you have the proper toys and you're in the proper position you really wont feel much.
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    I loved when my ex used a small twist anal dildo on me...was awkward at first but once comfortable and in right position made me cum so good...mmm
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    would be good to figure out how it works as im sure it feels great
  11. Alwayslearningsex

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    Tried seriously for a few minur=tes twice .... could not reach it myself.
    One of these days I will get a naughty girl to do it for me.
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    Get an anal prostate massager and thank me later! Orgasms are MUCH MORE POWERFUL!
    I use an Aneros Progasm massager. It is AWESOME!
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    First of all, I suppose 90% of all men don't want to try prostate pleasure, and those are the stupid ones. Of the 10% who are man enough to try, 90% think a butt plug will do the trick and they are wrong. A butt plug is anatomically INcorrect. It HAS to be a prostate massager which is shaped a special way.

    Now that it's established that a prostate massager is needed, let me dispel the myth about "massage". The purpose is NOT to rub the prostate. It might even be dangerous. And the goal is NOT to thrust it in and out of the butt. That's all wrong. Slide the prostate massager into place, let it stay there. When you get an erection, it presses (all by itself) on the prostate and seems to increase the hydrostatic pressure on the whole plumbing system and it feels heavenly. Then when you have an orgasm, it adds pressure to the ejaculation, it forces more semen out than normal, the muscle contractions press the massager against the prostate even harder. I repeat, do NOT rub yourself with it, and don't even mess with butt plugs or any other item that is round. The only thing better than a prostate massager is a partner's finger *if* that partner has practiced a bit. I might post this as a separate thread because .... I'm revealing some secrets of the universe here.
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    Have had a couple of ladies do it for me and I was weak at the knees for hours afterwards and was as horny as hell wanting more,more more till I was almost beside myself
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    I was able to achieve orgasm through using just a standard vibrator. It was amazing. I'm not exactly sure how I did it, it was a year or so ago.
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    DW uses a vibrating anal toy(Tantus Pro Touch) to massage my prostate while she gives me a blowjob. I fill her mouth with cum. Unbelievable orgasm. Once you try it you will be hooked.

    As far as ass play being gay-as long as it is between a man and a woman-nothing gay about it. I am as straight as can be and I love ass play- dildos strap ons, prostate toys etc, but the thought of a real dick in my ass does not appeal to me at all.:D
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    hmm i might have to try the strap on dildo some day sounds like it would be intense.
  18. RoyaleWithCheese92

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    I myself do not get much pleasure with the plug or just placing something up there just to "touch" the prostate while I masturbate. When I do this, I cum quickly and enjoy it but just for the moment... (not worth getting everything ready and setting up) I like taking a SAFE anal dildo and starting flacid. You will realize how it is affecting your by "thrusting" slowly in and out, you will become hard. To me it has the same effect but lasts a lot longer. I found a dildo with a curve and awesome suction so I can stick it anywhere. What I recent found is laying on my back and sticking it to a drawer. That way I can control the speed and it can hit the right spot. I try and cum with out touching my penis. When I can actually do this, I get the best orgasm's I have ever had.

    I hope it works for ya. :slong
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    wow that sounds amazing, i know what it feels like when my woman fingers me and i cum without her even touching me, giving me goosebumps just thinking about that feeling, cant imagine doing it to my self though.
  20. RoyaleWithCheese92

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    I started after I watched a porno and saw the girl finger the guy and he seemed to like it. (I know it was only porn) but I liked it too. It took me a while to want a dildo but.... I love mine. I literally just bought my new one. Its a average girth but 8inch curve with an amazing suction. This allows me to place it to the drawer like stated before. The hard thing is finding places that will work. I need a sex machine haha. My advice is start slow and work your way up. Dont buy a super expensive dildo to start because before you know it you will want bigger. Thicker and longer! believe me. You dont think you will but you will. I use asto glide and it works wonders. relax and it is much easier and pleasurable. Have fun!