Prostate Massage Pegging

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  1. Albert

    Albert New Member

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    My girlfriend and I are thinking about trying this what is the best way to prepare for this? What should a guy expect?
     
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    My wife and I went several years before we tried strap on sex. We began with her using a vibrating anal toy to massage my prostate while she gave me a blowjob. My orgasms were out of this world and she says that I produce more cum like this and she loves cum. We went from this to strap on fucking and we enjoyed that even more. Now we do both from time to time. Have you tried a blowjob with prostate massage.

    I had thought that my wife might have a hangup about fucking me with a strap on, but-unknown to me-it had always been one of her fantasies.

    i love watching my wife wearing the strap on as she rubs lube on the dildo and talks dirty about her dick.

    Next we tried pegging as follows.


    We purchased a Bend Over Beginner Kit. It has a harness with a pouch for a small vibrator to stimulate her clitoris while she does me. It also includes two small silicone dildos(Silk Small-7/8 by 4.5 inches- and Silk Medium-11/4 by 5.5 inches- made by Tantus). Both of these are small and easy to insert with lube(Wet Original). DW put on the harness with the Small Silk dildo). She became so hot as she rubbed lube on the dildo and talked dirty about her dick. I got in the doggy position and she lubed my opening. She slowly inserted the dildo in me. It felt so good. She thrust some in this position, but we decided to try a variation on the missionary position. She removed the dildo and I lay on my back with my legs drawn up. She lay between my legs and inserted the dildo in me. In this position she can easily reach my dick for a handjob while she fucks me. She lubed my penis and went to thrusting while giving me a handjob. It wasn't long until we were both cumming-she from the harness vibrator and me from prostate stimulation and the handjob. Cum squirted everywhere.

    We then purchased a new harness(Buzz Me Tender) which is a little more sturdy and has pouches for two vibrators. A harness with vibrators to stimulate her clitoris is very important.

    We have graduated to new dildos. A word of caution about dildo size. The maximum dildo diameter that is comfortable for me is 1 1/2 or a little less, but up to 7 inches long or longer is fine. We much prefer silicone dildos. Some we enjoy are Vibrating Mistress(1 3/8 inch by 6 inches) made by Vixen Creations, Vibrating Leisure(! 1/4 by 7 inches) made by Tantus, Acute(Tantus)1.25 by 5 inches and curved, Compact (1 by 5.25 inches-made by Tantus,.

    A recent addition is a double dildo. We use Nexus Jr. with a harness and we do each other at the same time. DW had her first squirting orgasm while we were doing each other.

    Remember use lots and lots of lube. You can't use too much.

    Some couples are concerned about creating a mess. If you have a BM an hour or two before sex things will usually be clean. For me , however, I use a Fleet Enema filled with warm water before sex. I usually fill it three times or until it comes out clear. Also you can use a condom on the dildo. Hope this helps. Strap on sex is a great addition to our sex lives.She does me about once a week.

    We also like watching hardcore DVD'S together during mutual masturbation.

    There is a great tutorial on the web. It is called strap on master class. I found it on xnxx dot com. Just type in strap on master class in the search blank.

    Good luck. Pegging is fantastic. Hope you two enjoy.
     
  3. itsfreddo

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    lay on your back put your leg up in the air maybe get her to start with a small dildo & work your way up to a dildo about 6 or 7'' then go buy yourself a strapon you think you can take & away you go it will take time but once your get it right you will have full body mind blowin orgasm ..good luck
     
  4. nasstyboy

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    my GF at the time and i fooled with this a few times. she more wanted to try it than me. we used a vibrator. we must not have done it right because i really got nothing out of it but it turned her on.