I lost my virginity to my current longtime girlfriend almost two years ago. After few months I wasn't able to last more than a minute, frequently only lasting 5 to 15 seconds. She wanted me to tell her when I was going to cum and she begged me not to cum after 5 seconds and looked crestfallen when I did anyway, no matter how hard I tried not to. I would apologize and she told me it was okay but I knew she was disappointed each time. About a year ago I told her flat out that I felt awful for not being able to satisfy her. Of course she said that no matter how long I last, she is always immensely satisfied. So I began trying to last longer and the harder I tried, the worse it seemed to become. I've gotten a little better. I can go about 2 to 3 minutes before I cum but I still feel bad and I still don't satisfy her. I don't know what to do. I tried kegel exercises regularly for a long time but it didn't help. At this point I feel doomed to never satisfy her. I've never made her cum, but she says that it's her, not me and that is a pretty strong message that means its me. I'm lost. There's a bunch of other things I have floating around in my head but I'm going to take it one at a time. Does anyone (man or woman) have advice? I'm at the point where I will try almost anything.