Well my girl wants to have sex, and we have been doind a ton of foreplay lately, well i have been to her that is. But i'm having this small problem, I feel almost to nervous and i can't get it up! its strange cause i'll be making her all hot, doing everything i can, but i just feel almost to nervous and just plane can't seem to get it up. any suggestions for calming down or at least getting it up? I am a virgin, so i guess i have reason to be nervous, lol. The sad thing is we start out and i'm all wanting to go at it, but then i just get nervous I've always felt relaxed around this girl the intire time i've known her, hell we're in love and will probably be engaged soon. I just need to get past this little thing.