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  1. Samba

    Samba New Member

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    I love my girl. She's beautiful, fun...and omigosh....sexay! =P

    Anywho...I've been finding myself in this awful situation lately...in the middle of making out with her or laying down with her or her sitting on my lap (probably on obvious one) i've been finding myself getting erect! :eek

    I don't see it scaring her...or anything like that, and amazingly thus far I've been able to avoid her noticing...but I would like to learn how to control it.

    Any strategies you've got to help me to control that would be greatly appreciated :D
     
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    Bob Mackadoo New Member

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    I would think you would WANT her to notice it! Say, "Oops! Look what is happening!"
    Then let nature take over!
     
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    You shouldn't try to control the wild beast, let it do what it wants:dgrin
     
  4. Samba

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    I expected a response like that...


    Like I said, I'm sure she would have no problem with it...haha...

    but I'd like to save the "beast within" for when we're doing more than just snuggling or she's on top of me...y'know
     
  5. Bluesy

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    We women find that to be the ultimate compliment :tup So she has incontrovertible evidence that she's so hot she turns you on without even trying...I would be extremely surprised if your hard-on offended her. We women understand how very natural a reaction that is (so long as you don't expect something to happen just because you're hard!).
     
  6. Samba

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    Hahaha...alright, I won't expect anything then :p

    And hearing that from a woman is a tad more reassuring than hearing that from a guy. Thanks :D
     
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    Samba Said
    Don't try to control it Samba.
    Of course She notices it and maybe she gets wet and wants it.
    But that does not mean She will do it
    Don't ever expect Her to say
    "Hey you have a hard on lets use it"
    It's natural so accept it.

    Hiker.
     
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    don't hide it! gosh... girls want to notice their guy get hard! wow, if she knew you were getting hard while lieing there watching tv, i doubt her mind would be concentrating on the film!
     
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    I generally control that problem with inserting my erect penis into her pussy. It usually makes my erection go away.
     
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    Good grief, your 30 years. I hope your not going with a girl that doesn't know what that is!! Why worry?
     
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    my girl friend loves to see me erect especially when i have to go do something that will involve in seeing someone.. so when ever i get up she'll always make out with me and grab my balls.
     
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    this is not a problem.........
     
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    Yea this is a good thing. Otherwise it could mean you are not sexually attracted to her.
     
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    she wont mind. just do what you gotta do
     
  15. MysteryMan

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    It's perfectly fine even if she doesnt intend to have sex with you. It shows you are a man. Real men have boners :D