Ok, so my first post. Let me give some background about the issue. I am 21 and was a virgin up until I starting dating this girl and after waiting a few weeks I lost it. I love her and think she is absolutely beautiful. I can get rock hard and turned on by her. And I can go for 30-60mins with no problem. She says she has never had such intense orgasm's like she has had with me. However, I have the hardest time ejaculating with or without the condom. I can pre-cum and that is it. We have maybe had sex 20 times so far and I only ejaculated 1 time. I can get myself to ejaculate after watching a lot of porn but not with my girlfriend. Prior to loosing my virginity I watched porn. I also take a few medications that could be putting me at a disadvantage. I take 10mg of adderall, 200mg of zoloft, and 0.5mg of klonopin (as needed). All of these have sexual problems as a side affect. So my girlfriend gets really upset that I cannot ejaculate in the condom while its in her. I even showed her this website with a post about performance anxiety. What can I do to fix my issue??