But we'll see where it goes. I'm a 29 year old male but I was a late starter sexually. For no real reason I was 22 when I had sex for the first time which is still a source of embarassment for me (because of that age) and it wasn't exactly spectacular anyway. I know being a young, vibrant, working male I should have clocked up heaps of experience by now but truth be told I've only ever slept with 4 women and all of 1 of them has let me go down on her (which I love to do). I've had 1 twelve month relationship in that time which ended nasty (I travel away from home quite a bit because of work and she waited til I went away on a trip to tell me by text message she'd been cheating) and the rest have lasted probably all of 2 months each. While trying to have sex and just enjoy and explore a woman's body at various times I've found myself only half-aroused by my partner at the time and even though I really wanted to have sex with her I couldn't get rock hard. I've found that I'm too self-conscious about whether I'm satisfying her (love to give partners oral sex til they cum before getting any pleasure myself) and I can't just enjoy what's happening. I've found I need emotional attachment for it to happen for me but I am too embarassed about my lack of sexual experience to enable me to get close enough to a girl I really like. After all this drivel are there any tips out there for being able to get past this predicament??