so like two days ago had sex for the first time. quite painful, as to be expected. didnt expect to get anything out of it either, ie orgasm. probably because i was so damn nervous i could not be aroused. so anywho, tried it again for the second time and i got nothing out of it again! its quite disapointing. like we fooled around a bit before hand but as it went on, i just lost it all. i was bored with the repetiveness after a few minutes. lord is it always going to be this way for me? what do i have to do to get an orgasm? do i have to get mine before we even start with him? help me before i never want to have sex again!