Prep for anal sex

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  1. Susann

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    Not that I'm unfamiliar with this, but it's becoming more frequent. For those of you who enjoy this frequently, how do you prepare to eliminate the mess? I could do enama every evening, but I don't think that's good. Guess I'm just tired of having to be careful whenever we do anal. Thoughts please?
     
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    We have anal on a fairly regular basis with no more prep than just a nice shower. Speaking from my perspective only, I think the fear or worry couples have is way worse than the actual reality. Over many years, we have not had anything that I would even consider a mess. In the beginning it to was also a huge concern for my wife and I as well. What I'm trying to say is that you may be overly concerned with something that just really isn't a problem. If you have healthy bowels I would bet there will be no mess to speak of.
     
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    I don't clean/prep beyond a shower (that day, not right before).
     
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    I don't prep. If he's uncomfortable with the possibility of dirt, he can wear a condom. In my experience, there's never a mess, unless I'm not well. In such occasions, I warn him and it's up to him to decide if the risk is worth taking.
     
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    Same thing!
     
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    Same here. Anyone who wants anal has to realise there is a (very small risk) of mess. Never happened in my experience..
     
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    True I have never experience that either.
     
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    I like to clean her up after......mmmmm . Yummy! ;):p
     
  9. Susann

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    Thanks for all the input (pun???). We do experience a little s**t on the penis with anal, but I guess we'll have to live with a washcloth. ;)
     
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    To be honest, if you use plenty of lube, very little /no shit is going to stick in my experience ;)
     
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    We have never had any issue with just a shower. but a little probably wouldn't bother me anyway.
     
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    Have not done an anal insert in a while but last one was very erotic and it made me cum quickly. there was no mess and rifing my lover from behind was wonderful. loved pulling on her nipples as we fucked mmmmm
     
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    My wife take a shower before anal. I don't know what she does but after that she is clean. But one time I saw a little s* on my penis. But... It' a not a problem, because it's anal sex!)))
     
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    I agree, getting some sh*t on your dick is not that big of a deal. It's an inevitable risk if you are having lots of anal sex (unless she's anorexic and never has bowel movements) so the best thing to do is just get used to it and wash it off afterwards.

    You pretty much answered it yourself. If you're afraid of the presence of sh*t then the only thing you can do is take an enema, make sure you're eating lots of fiber and are never constipated and practice good hygiene.

    I ditched toilet paper and I use a bidet and flushable wipes for ultimate hygiene. I don't think toilet paper is good enough for cleaning anything. No more swamp ass, no more anal itching, no more bits of toilet paper stuck to your nether regions, and just overal cleanliness lol.
     
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