This is open to everyone guy or girl for their opinion. So I am a 34 year old married male, have been married for 9 years now. Like many others, after kids, work and the typical stresses of life we only have sex maybe once every couple of months. I typically masturbate 3-4 times a week and this has been the routine for some years now. The problem this has led to, when I do have intercourse with my wife, I typically am ready to ejaculate within a couple of minutes. Obviously the goal of masturbation is to cum quick, so I have developed a not so good habit of having a quick trigger. So obviously I have looked online and read up on some of the methods. Have tried the start/stop/start again method during sex, problem with that is my wife really does not get to the point of orgasm becaue every time I get going, I have to stop...and so on. Has anyone had any problem with this first hand or with a parter and please share any useful information. Thanks for reading!